
Reach for this book when your child is starting to ask questions about identity, social hierarchies, or what it means to be true to oneself in the face of peer pressure. It is an ideal choice for a middle-schooler who feels like an outsider or is witnessing the shift toward more complex social dynamics and romantic interests in their peer group. Through an alphabiography school assignment, twelve year old Joe navigates the realities of being a gay seventh grader with humor and refreshing honesty. The story tackles bullying and labels directly but maintains a hopeful, lighthearted tone that celebrates individuality. It is a secular and supportive look at self-discovery that helps parents and children discuss kindness, the harm of name-calling, and the importance of finding a supportive 'tribe.'
Verbal bullying and homophobic slurs. While used to illustrate the harm of name-calling, these moments can be emotionally intense.
A middle schooler who is beginning to notice social cliques and labels. It is particularly suited for a child who feels different or is looking for the vocabulary to describe their own identity while maintaining a sense of humor.
Parents should be aware that the book contains disparaging language used by bullies. It is helpful to read this alongside the child to discuss why these words are harmful and how Joe handles the verbal abuse. No specific scenes require skipping, but the 'N' for 'Names' and 'K' for 'Kevin' entries are worth a pre-read. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child use or receive a hurtful label at school, or if their child expresses anxiety about fitting in during the transition to junior high.
Younger readers (age 10) will focus on the humor and the dynamics of Joe's friend group. Older readers (age 13-14) will more deeply resonate with Joe's internal struggle regarding his romantic interest and the social consequences of being open about his sexuality.
Unlike many 'coming out' stories that focus on tragedy or rejection, Joe is supported by his family and friends from the start. The book focuses on the internal work of self-definition rather than the external struggle for basic acceptance.
Twelve year old Joe is tasked with writing an alphabiography, an A to Z look at his life, for his seventh grade English teacher. Through these entries, Joe documents his experience navigating middle school as a gay student. He deals with the pressure of a secret romance with a closeted classmate, the pain of being targeted by a school bully, and the strength he finds in his close-knit group of friends known as the Gang of Five.
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