
A parent would reach for this book when their child feels like they are being left behind by a peer or sibling who is maturing faster, or when a child is processing the death of a beloved grandparent. It is especially poignant for twins or close siblings who are beginning to drift into different social circles. The story follows Dezzy, a thirteen-year-old who feels out of step with her more sophisticated twin sister, Casey. After their grandmother dies, Dezzy must navigate her grief while finding her own unique voice and interests, specifically through a budding passion for environmental science and a new friendship. This is a realistic, gentle look at middle school identity and the messy process of growing up at your own pace. It is highly appropriate for ages 10 to 14, providing comfort to those who feel 'younger' than their peers.
Themes of grief, loneliness, and feeling social isolation from a sibling.
The book deals directly with the death of a grandparent and the subsequent grief of the family. The approach is secular and realistic, focusing on the emotional void left behind and the changing dynamics of the household. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Dezzy doesn't 'get over' the loss, but she learns to integrate it into her new sense of self.
A middle schooler who feels like a 'late bloomer' or who is struggling with a sibling who has suddenly changed their personality to fit in. It is perfect for a child who finds more comfort in nature or with older relatives than in the cafeteria social scene.
No specific scenes require prior vetting, though parents should be prepared to discuss the differing ways people grieve, as Dezzy and her family members react to the grandmother's death in very different ways. A parent might notice their child withdrawing after a sibling gains a new group of friends, or hearing their child say 'I'm not ready to grow up yet.'
Younger readers (10-11) will relate to Dezzy’s desire to keep things as they were, while older readers (13-14) will better recognize the social pressures Casey is facing and the nuance of Dezzy's burgeoning independence.
Unlike many twin stories that focus on the 'twin bond,' Sachs focuses on the painful but necessary process of 'untwinning' and the validity of maturing at a slower, more observational pace.
Dezzy and Casey are identical twins entering the social minefield of thirteen. Casey is eager to grow up, flirting and chasing popularity, while Dezzy feels more comfortable in the world of childhood. When their grandmother, who was their primary emotional anchor, suddenly passes away, the sisters' paths diverge even further. Dezzy finds herself isolated until she connects with her grieving grandfather and a neighbor who shares her interest in the local environment. Through a science project involving local wetlands, Dezzy begins to build an identity independent of her sister.
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