
Reach for this book when your child starts asking complex questions about an upcoming sibling or expresses mixed feelings about losing their status as the only child. While many books on this topic focus on the logistics of a new baby, this story dives into the imaginative world of a young boy as he envisions all the different people his sibling might become, from a chef to a mountain climber. It creates a safe space for curiosity and even the occasional doubt, making it an excellent tool for preparing preschoolers and early elementary children for family changes. The narrative honors the bond between mother and child, following them through the seasons as they prepare for the new arrival. Its gentle humor and whimsical illustrations help normalize the waiting period, which can often feel long and abstract to a young child. By focusing on the boy's creative predictions, the book helps shift the perspective from what is being lost to the exciting possibilities of a new lifelong friend.
The book is secular and realistic in its portrayal of pregnancy. It touches on the child's ambivalence or mild jealousy with a gentle, non-judgmental hand. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the first meeting.
A 4-year-old only child who is highly imaginative but perhaps feeling a bit lost in the shadow of 'baby talk' at home. It is perfect for the child who likes to ask 'what if?'
The book is safe to read cold. Parents should be prepared for the boy's humorous suggestions, such as the baby becoming a 'burglar,' which is meant to be funny and imaginative rather than literal. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I don't think we need the baby anymore,' or 'When is the baby ever going to get here?'
Toddlers will enjoy the recurring question of 'when?' and the colorful art. Older children (6-7) will appreciate the irony and humor in the boy's career predictions for a tiny infant.
Unlike standard 'new baby' books that focus on diapers and crying, Burningham uses split-page illustrations to contrast reality with the child's vivid internal fantasy world, giving the older sibling total agency over the narrative.
The story follows a young boy and his mother throughout a pregnancy, tracking the changing seasons and the growing belly. Each page features a dialogue between the two, where the boy poses imaginative possibilities for who the baby will be: a chef, a painter, or even a sailor. The mother responds with grounded yet playful encouragement, acknowledging the boy's role as a big brother while navigating his occasional skepticism about whether they actually need a baby at all.
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