
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is standing at the threshold of adulthood, feeling the weight of a small town or the pressure of a secret identity. It is a poignant resource for teens navigating the messy intersection of first love, the anxiety of coming out, and the pain of watching their parents' marriage dissolve during their final summer before college. The story follows Dade Hamilton as he balances a stagnant job and a complicated relationship with a closeted boyfriend, only to find a transformative connection with a newcomer. It is a realistic and sometimes raw exploration of self-discovery, identity, and the courage it takes to leave the past behind. While it touches on heavy themes like grief and infidelity, its hopeful conclusion makes it an excellent choice for mature teens seeking a story that validates their complex emotions and the transition to independence.
Frequent use of profanity consistent with older teen dialogue.
Includes descriptions of sexual intimacy and complex romantic relationships.
Themes of parental divorce, infidelity, and the pain of being a 'secret' partner.
Depictions of teenage drinking and marijuana use.
The book handles identity and coming out with a secular, direct approach. It addresses domestic issues like parental infidelity and divorce realistically. A significant tragedy involving a peer's death is handled with emotional weight but remains grounded in the protagonist's growth. The resolution is hopeful and forward-looking.
A 16 to 18 year old who feels like an outsider in their community or is struggling with the discrepancy between their private self and public persona during the transition to college.
Parents should be aware of depictions of teenage drinking, drug use (marijuana), and sexual content. The book is best read by teens who have a level of maturity regarding adult themes. A parent might notice their child withdrawing, expressing frustration with 'small town' mentalities, or showing anxiety about the 'performative' aspects of high school social life.
Younger teens (14-15) may focus on the romance and the 'escape' of going to college. Older teens (17-18) will likely connect more deeply with the nuances of parental disappointment and the fear of leaving home.
Unlike many YA novels that end at the 'coming out' moment, this book explores the lived experience of being out versus being closeted and the specific liberation that comes from choosing oneself over a toxic first love.
Dade Hamilton is spending his final summer in Cedarville, Iowa, working a dead-end job and hiding his relationship with Pablo, who refuses to acknowledge him in public. As Dade's parents' marriage falls apart, he meets Alex, a confident newcomer who helps Dade find the strength to live authentically. The narrative follows their burgeoning romance against the backdrop of suburban stagnation, culminating in a tragic event that forces Dade to evaluate his resilience and his future.
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