
A parent would reach for this book when their child is carrying the heavy weight of 'survivor guilt' or feeling responsible for a family tragedy that was beyond their control. This story follows thirteen-year-old Dellie, who is navigating life in the projects while crushed by the memory of her younger brother's accidental death. It is a deeply moving exploration of grief, poverty, and the paralyzing fear that often follows loss. While the themes are intense, the book provides a roadmap for healing through community connection and self-forgiveness. It is most appropriate for mature middle schoolers who are ready to discuss complex family dynamics, the realities of urban hardship, and the slow process of coming back to life after a devastating blow. Parents will find it a valuable tool for normalizing the messy, often angry stages of grief and showing that helping others is a powerful way to help oneself.
Scenes involving the dangers of heights and safety in a high-rise building.
Depicts severe parental depression and child neglect/malnourishment.
The book deals directly and realistically with the accidental death of a child. The approach is secular but deeply spiritual in its focus on human connection. The resolution is realistic: the pain doesn't disappear, but the characters find a way to live with it and seek professional help.
A mature 11 to 13 year old who has experienced a significant loss or who feels an adult-sized burden of responsibility for their family's happiness. It is perfect for a child who feels 'stuck' in their emotions.
Parents should be aware that the book contains a brief but vivid description of a child falling from a height, which may be upsetting to some readers. The book also depicts a character experiencing severe depression, which may prompt questions about mental health. It can be read cold, but expect questions about why some parents (like Corey's) fail to care for their children. A parent might see their child withdrawing from friends or expressing irrational guilt over a sibling's struggle or a family misfortune.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the mystery of the new neighbor and the desire to save Corey. Older readers (13-14) will more deeply resonate with Dellie's internal shame and the nuances of her strained friendship with her best friend.
This book stands out for its raw, unsentimental look at urban poverty combined with a delicate, high-stakes emotional journey. It doesn't sugarcoat the 'trouble,' but it insists on the possibility of light. """
Dellie lives in a housing project in New York, struggling with the memory of her five-year-old brother Tyrell, who fell to his death while she was supposed to be watching him. Her mother is catatonic with grief, and the family is scraping by. When a new neighbor moves in and a young boy named Corey is being neglected downstairs, Dellie must decide if she can risk caring about someone again.
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