
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is navigating the exhausting emotional rollercoaster of a first 'serious' relationship that seems to cause more heartache than happiness. It is a perfect choice for a teen who is struggling to understand why they keep returning to a person who isn't right for them or for a child who feels like an outsider in their own hometown. Set in the 1990s, the story follows Craig and Amy through seven distinct breakups during their senior year of high school. It captures the raw, often embarrassing reality of young love, intellectual insecurity, and the terrifying transition into adulthood. While the humor is sharp and frequent, the book provides a deeply honest look at how we form our identities through our connections with others. It is appropriate for mature teens, as it deals realistically with the intensity of high school romance and the bittersweet necessity of moving on.
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Sign in to write a reviewRealistic depictions of teen physical intimacy and intense emotional obsession.
Exploration of heartbreak, loneliness, and the fear of being left behind.
Occasional references to teen drinking and party culture.
The book deals with teen romance and sexuality in a direct, realistic manner. It also touches on academic pressure and the fear of the future. The approach is secular and grounded in mid-90s Midwestern realism. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet, emphasizing personal growth over a 'happily ever after' romantic ending.
A high school junior or senior who feels like a 'big fish in a small pond' and is currently obsessed with a relationship that their friends keep telling them is unhealthy. It’s for the kid who uses humor as a shield.
Parents should be aware of realistic teen language and sexual references. The non-linear structure might require a quick check-in to ensure the reader is following the timeline. A parent might see their teen constantly checking their phone (or in 1994 terms, waiting by the landline), crying over the same person for the third time this month, and refusing to let go of a toxic cycle.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the humor and the 'drama' of the breakups. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more deeply with the anxiety of leaving home and the realization that people change.
Unlike many YA romances that glamorize 'on-again-off-again' dynamics as soulful, this book uses sharp wit and 90s nostalgia to expose the absurdity and pain of such cycles while remaining deeply empathetic.
Set in Janesville, Wisconsin, in 1994, the novel follows Craig, a self-described geek and aspiring writer, and Amy, a brilliant and high-achieving student leader. The narrative is non-sequential, jumping through various 'torments' or breakups during their senior year. While Craig is desperate to escape his hometown for a creative college life, Amy is grappling with her own identity outside of her academic success and her role as Craig's girlfriend.
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