
Reach for this book when your daughter starts feeling like an outsider because of her height, or when the physical changes of middle school begin to weigh on her self-esteem. It is a comforting, realistic look at the awkward transition into puberty through the eyes of Emily, a sixth grader who feels like a 'giant' compared to her peers. The story focuses on the transformative power of a new friendship with Sara, a girl who is even taller but carries herself with an unapologetic boldness. Parents will appreciate how the book addresses the cruelty of peer teasing without being overly dark. It offers a roadmap for moving from embarrassment to self-acceptance. While the setting is a bit older, the emotional core of navigating changing bodies and finding 'your people' remains timeless for children ages 8 to 12. It is an excellent choice for opening a dialogue about body image and the importance of surrounding oneself with friends who build you up rather than tear you down.
The book deals with body image, peer bullying, and sibling rivalry. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic: the bullies don't necessarily disappear, but Emily's internal armor becomes much stronger.
A fifth or sixth grader who is physically maturing faster than their peers and feels 'clumsy' or 'too big' in their own skin. It's for the child who needs to see that being different isn't a defect.
Read cold. The book is very accessible, though parents should be prepared to discuss the dated 1970s setting, which may require explaining some cultural references. A parent might hear their child say, 'I hate my body,' or see them constantly slouching to hide their height or development.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the fun of the new friendship and the 'mean girl' dynamics. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the specific anxiety of puberty and physical changes.
Unlike many modern books that focus on weight, this specifically tackles the unique social stigma and internal awkwardness of being a tall girl, handled with Mary Downing Hahn's signature emotional honesty.
Emily is 11 years old and distressed by a sudden growth spurt that makes her the tallest person in her class. She is frequently teased and feels like a misfit until Sara moves to town. Sara is taller than Emily but possesses a defiant, confident personality. The story follows their developing friendship, Emily's struggle with a younger sister who seems 'perfect' and petite, and the eventual shift in Emily's self-perception as she learns to stop slouching and start living.
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