
Reach for this book when your teenager is navigating the friction between fulfilling family expectations and discovering their own independent path. It is an ideal choice for parents of high schoolers who are beginning to ask questions about family history, grappling with strict household rules, or experiencing the intensity of a first serious relationship. The story follows Birdie Randolph, a high achiever whose world expands and complicates when her aunt, who has a history of addiction, moves in and a forbidden romance blossoms. Through Birdie's journey, the novel explores how secrets can both protect and hurt a family. It is a nuanced, realistic look at the pressures placed on Black excellence and the courage it takes to define oneself outside of a parent's vision. While it touches on heavy themes like addiction and the juvenile justice system, it remains a deeply hopeful exploration of identity and healing.
Teen romance includes kissing and some physical intimacy/sexual tension.
Themes of grief, family estrangement, and historical trauma.
Aunt Carlene is in recovery from addiction; discussions of past drug use and treatment.
The book handles addiction, trauma, and racial profiling in a direct and secular manner. The treatment of the juvenile justice system is realistic but empathetic. The resolution is hopeful and focuses on emotional honesty and the possibility of reconciliation rather than a neat, fairy-tale ending.
A thoughtful 15-to-17-year-old who feels the weight of being the 'good kid' and is looking for a story that validates the complexity of loving difficult family members.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the nuance of the juvenile justice system and the reality of addiction recovery. Previewing the scenes involving Aunt Carlene's past can help facilitate discussions about empathy. A parent might see their child pulling away, keeping secrets, or expressing resentment toward high academic and behavioral standards.
Younger teens will focus on the romance and the 'unfairness' of strict parents. Older teens will better grasp the systemic issues and the moral ambiguity of the parents' choices.
Unlike many YA novels that present parents as one-dimensional obstacles, Colbert crafts a complex portrait of parental protectionism, showing how love and fear can lead to both safety and stifling secrecy. """
Birdie Randolph is a 16-year-old girl in Chicago living under the strict gaze of her parents. She has given up soccer to focus on grades and being the 'perfect' daughter. Her life changes when she begins a secret relationship with Booker, a boy with a juvenile record, and her Aunt Carlene, a recovering addict, returns to the family home. The discovery of a massive family secret forces Birdie to reconcile the version of her parents she has always known with the truth of their past.
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