
Reach for this book when your child is beginning to experiment with new forms of self expression that might defy traditional expectations or gender norms. It is an ideal bridge for the child who feels boxed in by their family's existing perceptions of them. Jacob is a young boy who loves hockey but also finds deep joy and connection in his grandmother's painted fan, a conflict that mirrors the real world tension between who we are and who others expect us to be. The story gently explores identity and the courage it takes to share your full self with your loved ones. With a touch of Vietnamese folklore and a supportive supernatural element, it provides a safe, imaginative space for children aged 6 to 9 to navigate the complexities of being true to themselves while maintaining strong family bonds.
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An 8-year-old child who is beginning to feel like their current hobbies or clothing choices don't tell their whole story.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to use the mentions of Grandma Noi to discuss how we can draw strength from ancestors when making difficult personal changes. A child expressing that they feel "stuck" in their current identity.
A 6-year-old will focus on the magic of the fan and Jacob's desire to try new things. A 9-year-old will more deeply resonate with the social anxiety of parental disapproval and the challenges of expressing oneself authentically.
Unlike many books that explore self-discovery, this one beautifully weaves in Vietnamese folklore and a supernatural connection to an ancestor, making the journey of self-discovery feel like a spiritual and cultural homecoming rather than a departure from family values. """
Jacob, the youngest of the Nguyen children, feels trapped by his family's perception of him as just a hockey player. While he still loves the sport, he is drawn to more fluid forms of self-expression, symbolized by a beautiful Vietnamese zodiac fan gifted by his late grandmother. As he navigates his parents' hesitation toward his changing interests, Jacob uses the fan and the spiritual presence of Grandma Noi to find the confidence to bridge the gap between his heritage, his gender expression, and his family's expectations.
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