
A parent should reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to navigate the aftermath of a sibling's mental health crisis or feels lost in the shadow of family trauma. It is a poignant, realistic story about Violet, a girl sent to live with her uncle in a seaside town after her brother attempts suicide. While there, she searches for a legendary family shipwreck, hoping that uncovering her history will help her understand her own identity and the 'family curse' of instability. The book explores heavy themes of depression, guilt, and self-destructive behavior with immense grace and honesty. It is appropriate for older teens who are ready for a deep, emotional dive into what it means to love someone who is hurting while still finding your own path to safety. Parents will appreciate the way it validates the 'forgotten sibling' experience and offers a path toward hope and self-forgiveness.
Sweet, slow-burn romance with some kissing.
Deals heavily with suicide attempts, clinical depression, and family trauma.
Depicts underage drinking as a coping mechanism for grief and anxiety.
The book deals directly with suicide attempts, clinical depression, and self-harming behaviors (reckless drinking/partying). The approach is secular and deeply realistic, focusing on the clinical and emotional realities of mental health rather than metaphors. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that recovery is a long, non-linear process.
A high schooler who feels responsible for a friend or family member's happiness, or a teen who uses humor and 'wildness' to mask deep-seated anxiety and grief.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving underage drinking and a frank discussion of a suicide attempt. It is a 'read cold' book for mature teens but benefits from having a safe adult available to discuss the heavy themes of mental health. A parent might see their child withdrawing from social circles or expressing profound guilt over things they cannot control, such as a sibling's hospitalization or a friend's depression.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the mystery and the budding romance. Older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the complex family dynamics and the fear of inheriting mental health struggles.
Unlike many 'sick-lit' YA novels, this focuses on the sibling of the person in crisis, exploring the unique guilt and identity loss that comes with that role.
Violet and her brother Sam have always been the 'wild' ones, but after Sam's suicide attempt, Violet is sent to Lyric, Maine, to live with her uncle. There, she teams up with two local boys, an amateur historian and a charming sailor, to find the shipwreck of the Fidelity, a boat her ancestor survived. As she digs into the past, she must confront her own reckless behavior and the reality of her brother's illness.
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