
Reach for this book when your child is feeling the heavy weight of a recent loss during a time of celebration or a holiday. It is a perfect choice for children who seem withdrawn or fearful of attending family gatherings while they are actively grieving a loved one. The story follows young Cala on Dia de Muertos as she navigates her reluctance to celebrate her grandfather's memory alongside her family's festivities. Through a lush, magical lens, the book explores how bravery isn't the absence of fear or sadness, but the willingness to move through them. While it centers on a specific cultural holiday, the emotional core of missing a grandparent and finding comfort in the 'invisible' presence of those we've lost is universal. It is a gentle, visually stunning tool for normalizing the complex mix of joy and sorrow that often accompanies heritage and family memory.
Focuses on the grief following the death of a grandparent.
Cala is briefly separated from her family in a cemetery at night.
The book deals directly with the death of a grandparent and the resulting grief. The approach is metaphorical and spiritual, rooted in the specific traditions of Dia de Muertos. The resolution is hopeful, focusing on the enduring nature of love and the legacy of the deceased.
An elementary-aged child who feels 'stuck' in their sadness after a loss, or a child who finds large, loud family celebrations overwhelming when they are feeling vulnerable.
Read this cold; the illustrations do much of the heavy lifting. Parents may want to familiarize themselves with the symbolism of Dia de Muertos (e.g., ofrendas, sugar skulls) to answer potential questions from children unfamiliar with the holiday. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I don't want to go to the party because Grandpa isn't there,' or seeing their child hide away during a family event.
Younger children (4-6) will be captivated by the 'mysterious riders' and the vivid colors, viewing it as a magical adventure. Older children (7-10) will better grasp the nuance of Cala's internal conflict between grief and participation.
Unlike many grief books that focus on the moment of death, this focuses on the 'after'—how we live with the absence during times when the world expects us to be happy. """
Cala is grieving the death of her grandfather and feels disconnected from the vibrant Dia de Muertos preparations. While at the cemetery, she is accidentally separated from her family. In the misty, magical atmosphere of the holiday, she encounters four mysterious riders who lead her on a brief journey of self-discovery. Through this encounter, she realizes her own strength and returns to her family ready to honor her grandfather's memory with love rather than just fear.
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