
Parents should reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to understand a parent's mental health crisis or the lingering shadows of trauma within the home. The story follows seventeen year old Hayley Kincaid as she attempts to navigate a normal high school experience while acting as the primary caregiver for her father, a veteran battling severe PTSD. It is a raw and unflinching look at the role reversal that often happens in families dealing with illness. This is an essential choice for mature teens who need to see their own resilience reflected back at them, or for families looking to open a dialogue about the complexities of post-war life and the importance of seeking professional help rather than suffering in silence. Due to themes of substance use and trauma, it is best suited for high schoolers.
Depicts severe PTSD, depression, and the emotional toll of caregiving.
Characters use alcohol and drugs to cope with trauma.
Includes descriptions of war horrors and a scene involving a firearm.
The book deals directly and intensely with PTSD, suicide attempts, and substance abuse. The approach is secular and starkly realistic. While the ending offers a glimmer of hope, it avoids a 'magical fix,' emphasizing that recovery is a long, difficult process requiring professional intervention.
A high schooler who feels isolated by their family's secrets, particularly those in military families or those living with a parent who has a chronic mental illness.
Parents should be aware of a climactic scene involving a gun and a suicide attempt. It is a heavy read that benefits from being discussed rather than read in total isolation. A parent might see their teen becoming hyper-vigilant, acting as the 'adult' in the room, or withdrawing from peers to manage household stress.
Younger teens (14) may focus on the romance and the school dynamics, while older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuance of Andy's trauma and the ethical weight of Hayley's burden.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the veteran's perspective, this story centers entirely on the 'forgotten' child caregiver and the specific, heavy armor they wear to survive.
After years on the road, Hayley Kincaid and her father, Andy, return to their hometown. Andy is a veteran struggling with severe PTSD, and Hayley has spent most of her life protecting him and managing his episodes. As Hayley tries to navigate a new relationship and school, her father's mental state deteriorates, forcing Hayley to confront the fact that she cannot save him alone.
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