
Reach for this book when your child expresses anxiety about needing to be the best to earn their place in the family or when they are navigating the complexities of being an adopted child in a multi-sibling household. It is a heart-centered story about eleven-year-old Sam, who feels like an outsider because she doesn't share the same ocean-themed naming convention as her siblings and fears that her mothers selling the family boat business means losing her connection to the family identity. Through Sam's journey, the book explores the pressure of self-imposed expectations and the realization that belonging is a permanent gift, not something that must be constantly earned through achievement. It is a gentle, contemporary realistic story perfect for middle-grade readers (ages 8 to 12) who enjoy stories about close-knit, non-traditional families and the scenic backdrop of life on the water. Parents will appreciate the healthy depiction of LGBTQ+ parenting and the honest, relatable sibling dynamics.
Themes of fear regarding losing family connection and financial instability.
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A 9-to-11-year-old who feels they have to "earn" their keep or a child in a large, busy family who is currently struggling with feelings of being the "different" one in the group.
This book can be read cold. The conflict is internal and grounded in relatable childhood anxieties. Parents may want to be ready to discuss the difference between a child's perception of family stability and the reality of parental decisions. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child express fear that they aren't as talented as their siblings, or if a child asks, "If we moved or changed our lives, would I still be the same person to you?"
Younger middle-grade readers will focus on the fun of the boat business and the relatable annoyance of sibling competition. Older readers will more deeply resonate with Sam's nuanced identity crisis and the specific intersections of being an adopted child in a multi-child household.
While many books focus on the trauma of the adoption process, this story excels by focusing on the "after." It presents a joyful, established LGBTQ+ headed household where the conflict isn't about the family's validity, but about a child's internal journey toward secure attachment.
Eleven-year-old Sam is one of five adopted siblings in the Ali-O'Connor family. Unlike her siblings, who all have ocean-themed names, Sam feels like the odd one out. When she overhears her two moms discussing selling the family boat-chartering business, she panics. Believing the business is her only bridge to a permanent sense of belonging, Sam engages in a high-stakes competition with her sibling Harbor to prove she is the ultimate "Ali-O'Connor" and save the company. (Note: The user-provided Wikipedia summary appears to be for Joseph Conrad's "The Lagoon" and was disregarded in favor of the actual book content for Sam Makes a Splash).
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