
A parent would reach for this book when their child is experiencing the guilt and confusion of outgrowing a childhood best friend. It addresses the painful transition from the uncomplicated play of elementary school to the social hierarchies of middle school. Sarah and Marjorie have been best friends since kindergarten, but as they enter seventh grade, Sarah feels the weight of a promise to stay friends forever with a girl who no longer fits her changing world. The story explores themes of loyalty, social climbing, and the realization that people grow apart. It is a highly relatable, realistic look at the social dynamics of 12-year-olds and provides a gentle mirror for kids feeling the shame of wanting to fit in while still caring for an old friend.
The book deals with social exclusion and the 'ghosting' of a friend. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy: it acknowledges that some friendships do end, but emphasizes doing so with kindness rather than cruelty.
A sixth or seventh grader who is starting to feel embarrassed by their old hobbies or friends and is struggling with the moral weight of social ambition.
Read the scenes where Sarah is actively mean or dismissive to Marjorie. It can be hard to watch a protagonist be the 'villain' in someone else's story, but it provides a great opening to talk about peer pressure. A parent might see their child avoiding phone calls from a lifelong friend or making hurtful comments about someone they used to love spending time with.
Younger readers (age 10) might see Sarah as mean, while older readers (age 12-13) will likely empathize with her desperate need to belong and the claustrophobia of a forced friendship.
Unlike many 'mean girl' books where the protagonist is the victim, this book puts us in the shoes of the person doing the leaving, making it a sophisticated tool for self-reflection.
Sarah and Marjorie have been best friends since they were five, bonded by a formal promise to always be together. Now in seventh grade, Sarah is desperate to shed her 'uncool' image. When she joins the school choir and makes friends with the popular Amy, she begins to distance herself from Marjorie, who is socially awkward and perceived as weird. The story follows Sarah as she navigates the guilt of betraying Marjorie while trying to secure her spot in a new social circle.
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