
Reach for this book when your child feels like an outsider, struggles with a prickly exterior, or is navigating the complicated realization that adults are often imperfect. It is a powerful choice for families going through transitions or for children who use defiance as a shield to protect themselves from hurt. The story follows Gilly, a brilliant but difficult foster child who has spent years perfecting a tough persona while dreaming of a fantasy reunion with her biological mother. While the book is deeply funny, it is also a masterclass in emotional realism. It explores the messy nature of love, the pain of disappointment, and the difference between the family we imagine and the family that actually shows up for us. Parents should be aware that Gilly initially uses prejudiced language and manipulative tactics, but these are essential to her growth as she learns to see others as human beings. It is a profound, award-winning story that offers comfort to any child who feels like a 'tough case.'
Gilly steals money and manipulates others, though she later feels remorse.
Themes of parental abandonment and the realization that a biological parent is selfish.
The book deals with the foster care system, abandonment, and racism with searing honesty. The approach is direct and realistic. Gilly uses racial slurs early in the book (reflecting her environment and her desire to shock), but the narrative firmly corrects this through her evolving relationship with her Black neighbor, Mr. Randolph. The resolution is bittersweet and realistic rather than a fairy-tale ending.
A middle-schooler who feels misunderstood or 'different' and uses sarcasm or anger as a defense mechanism. It is also excellent for children in foster or adoptive families who are processing the 'fantasy' of biological parents vs. the reality of their current situation.
Parents should be aware of Gilly's use of a racial slur and her initial derogatory comments about her foster mother's weight and intellect. These scenes are vital for discussion about prejudice and how we treat people we don't yet understand. A parent might see their child lashing out at people who are trying to help them, or witness their child's devastating disappointment when a promised event or person fails to appear.
Younger readers (10) may focus on Gilly's schemes and the humor of her 'toughness.' Older readers (12-14) will better grasp the tragedy of the ending and the nuance of Courtney's selfishness.
Unlike many foster care stories that focus on abuse, this book focuses on the internal psychological state of the child: the brilliance, the anger, and the difficult process of allowing oneself to be loved.
Galadriel 'Gilly' Hopkins is a highly intelligent 11-year-old who has cycled through foster homes by being intentionally unmanageable. She lands with Maime Trotter, a large, semi-literate, and deeply loving woman, and a quiet boy named William Ernest. Gilly initially disdains them and plots to steal money to join her mother in San Francisco. Her plan backfires, leading to the discovery of her grandmother and an eventual relocation that Gilly realizes too late she doesn't want. The story concludes with Gilly facing the harsh reality of her biological mother's indifference while learning what true love looks like.
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