
A parent might reach for this book when their child is struggling with the embarrassment or social stigma of a family member's cognitive decline. It is a powerful resource for middle grade readers who feel guilty about being ashamed of a loved one with Alzheimer's or dementia. The story follows Jake Moon, a boy who once adored his grandfather Skelly, but now finds himself cringing at his grandfather's unpredictable and often humiliating public behavior. It captures the raw, honest internal conflict between deep love and the intense desire to fit in at school. Parents will appreciate how it validates the difficult emotions of caregiving from a child's perspective while ultimately moving toward a place of empathy and acceptance. It is a realistic, secular look at growing up and facing life's less pretty transitions.
Depicts the progressive mental decline of a beloved family member.
Chronic and degenerative illness (Alzheimer's/dementia), family crisis, and end-of-life themes. The book depicts the physical and mental decline of a loved one in realistic, sometimes harsh detail.
A middle schooler who is currently a young caregiver or living in a house with a relative suffering from dementia. This is for the child who feels like a "bad person" because they are embarrassed by their family circumstances.
Parents should be prepared for Jake's internal monologue, which can be quite harsh. The scene where Jake ignores Skelly at the dumpster is particularly painful and may require a post-reading check-in. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child express resentment toward a sick relative, or after seeing their child avoid bringing friends home out of fear of social stigma.
Younger readers (ages 8-10) will focus on the sadness of Skelly’s confusion. Older readers (11-13) will deeply resonate with the social anxiety and the moral dilemma of balancing self-preservation with family loyalty.
Unlike many books on illness that focus on the patient, this book is unflinching in its focus on the child's shame. It doesn't sugarcoat the "ugliness" of a child's resentment, making it a powerful tool for validation.
Jake Moon used to be inseparable from his grandfather, Skelly. But as Skelly’s Alzheimer’s disease progresses, the bond is replaced by Jake's intense embarrassment and resentment. The story follows Jake through middle school as he navigates the social minefield of having a grandfather who wanders, acts out in public, and eventually forgets who Jake is. The climax involves a moment of profound shame where Jake denies knowing his grandfather in a public setting, leading to a journey toward forgiveness and a new way of loving a shell of the person he once knew.
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