
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager feels like the black sheep of a high-achieving family or is struggling with negative body image and self-esteem. Virginia Shreves lives in the shadow of her seemingly perfect, thin, and successful parents and siblings. The story follows her journey of self-discovery as she navigates her first physical relationship, a family scandal involving her brother, and the realization that her worth is not defined by her weight or her family's expectations. This is a candid, humorous, and sometimes raw look at the teenage experience. It deals with sensitive topics like sexual assault and family dysfunction with a realistic lens. While the protagonist is fifteen, the themes of identity and standing up for oneself make it a powerful choice for older teens who are beginning to question the pressures of their social and domestic environments.
Explores the conflict of loving a family member who has done something reprehensible.
Depicts first sexual experiences including some physical descriptions and talk of consent.
Addresses bullying, fat-shaming by parents, and the emotional fallout of a sexual assault case.
The book addresses sexual assault (by a family member), disordered eating, and verbal emotional abuse from a parent. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic: the family does not magically heal, but Virginia finds her own strength and agency.
A high schooler who feels overlooked or judged by high-pressure parents. It will resonate with anyone who uses humor to mask deep-seated insecurities about their body or social status.
Parents should be aware of the subplot involving Byron's sexual assault charge. It is handled seriously but may require discussion regarding consent and accountability. There is also moderate sexual exploration. A parent might hear their child say, 'I'm the only failure in this house,' or notice their teen withdrawing from family meals to avoid criticism.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and school dynamics. Older teens (17-18) will likely connect more with the themes of dismantling parental pedestals and the complexities of moral ambiguity within a family.
Unlike many 'body positive' books of its era, it doesn't end with a makeover or a weight loss. It is a genuine psychological shift from self-shame to self-advocacy. """
Fifteen-year-old Virginia Shreves lives in an upscale Manhattan home where her mother is a doctor obsessed with weight and her father and sister are conventionally perfect. Virginia struggles with her self-image and feels like a disappointment compared to her seemingly perfect family. The plot centers on Virginia's growth after her 'perfect' brother Byron is suspended from university for a sexual assault allegation. This family crisis forces Virginia to stop hiding and start asserting her own identity through a personal code of conduct focused on self-acceptance and her evolving relationship with a boy named Froggy.
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