
Reach for this book when your child is standing on the threshold of puberty and searching for examples of what it means to be a good man in the modern world. Archer Magill is a fifth grader navigating the transition to middle school while observing the adults in his life, including his architect grandfather, his car-enthusiast father, and his beloved uncle. It is a warm, witty exploration of growing up, finding one's voice, and understanding that heroes come in many forms. Parents will appreciate the way it normalizes LGBTQ+ family dynamics through a lens of love and tradition. It is a gentle, sophisticated choice for kids aged 9 to 12 who are starting to notice the complexities of adult relationships and the shifting expectations of their own gender identity.
Includes the death of a family dog and themes of aging grandparents.
The book contains brief instances of school-based bullying and a scene involving a homophobic slur used by a student, which is framed as an unacceptable and hurtful act. There is also the death of a grandparent (natural causes) toward the end of the book.
A 10 or 11 year old boy who feels the pressure of traditional masculinity and needs to see that being a 'good man' can look many different ways. It is perfect for a child who values family traditions but is starting to realize the world is bigger and more diverse than they first thought.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to be prepared to discuss the historical context of marriage equality if the child asks why the wedding is such a significant milestone for the characters. A child might ask, 'What makes someone a hero?' or express anxiety about middle school and whether they have to change who they are to fit in.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the slapstick humor of the wedding mishaps and the school drama. Older readers (11-12) will better appreciate the nuances of the adult relationships and the sophisticated themes of integrity and legacy.
Unlike many books that center on the 'struggle' of identity, this story treats a gay wedding as a natural, joyful extension of a loving family's life. It is a rare middle-grade novel that focuses specifically on healthy male mentorship and the quiet, everyday heroism of being a kind person.
Archer Magill is a fifth grader moving into middle school while looking for a blueprint for manhood. He finds it in a quartet of role models: his architect grandfather, his car-customizing father, his uncle Paul, and his teacher Mr. McLeod. The narrative follows Archer over several years as he navigates school bullies, the physical changes of puberty, and the evolving relationships of the adults he admires, culminating in him serving as the best man at the wedding of Uncle Paul and Mr. McLeod.
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