
Reach for this book when your child is oscillating between excitement and frustration regarding a new baby in the house. It is the perfect choice for a toddler or preschooler who needs to know that their complex, sometimes negative, feelings are normal and safe to express. John Burningham uses simple text and expressive illustrations to show a little boy's daily life with a baby who is not always a fun playmate. The story validates the reality that babies can be boring, loud, or messy, while gently moving toward a place of acceptance. Parents will appreciate the lack of sugarcoating, as it provides a natural opening to discuss the ups and downs of sibling life without pressure to be the perfect big brother or sister.
The book is secular and realistic. It addresses the 'taboo' thought of wanting to get rid of a sibling. The approach is direct but filtered through a child's logic, resolving in a realistic, low-pressure way.
A 3-year-old who has just realized the baby is staying forever and is feeling a bit grumpy about the shared attention and the baby's lack of skills.
Read it cold. However, be prepared for the page where the boy suggests putting the baby in the dustbin (trash can). Some parents worry this encourages the idea, but in a bibliotherapy context, it serves to externalize and diffuse the child's hidden frustrations. A child saying 'I don't like the baby' or 'Can we send them back?'
Toddlers (2-3) will relate to the physical activities (eating, crying). Older preschoolers (4-5) will catch the dry humor in the boy's narration and the mother's patient responses.
Unlike many new-sibling books that focus on 'helping' or 'loving' the baby, Burningham focuses on the child's internal, honest appraisal of the baby as a somewhat useless but permanent roommate.
A young boy narrates his daily interactions with the new baby. He observes the baby eating, sleeping, and crying. He admits that sometimes the baby is annoying and that he even suggests putting the baby in the trash (humorously dismissed by his mother). The book concludes with a quiet moment of bonding, showing that despite the frustrations, the baby is a part of the family.
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