
A parent might reach for this book when their middle schooler is navigating the complex intersection of social anxiety, shifting family dynamics, or the vulnerability of a first crush. It is an ideal choice for children who feel like they are carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders or those struggling to articulate their mental health needs to the adults in their lives. The story follows two boys, Brian and Ezra, who are both hiding parts of themselves to survive the social hierarchy of middle school. Brian deals with a family crisis that lands him in foster care and triggers intense panic attacks, while Ezra grapples with his growing feelings for Brian and the fear of social fallout. This is a compassionate, secular exploration of resilience and the power of finding one person who truly sees you. It provides a vital mirror for children experiencing anxiety or domestic instability.
A gentle, age-appropriate exploration of a same-sex middle school crush.
Depicts family separation, parental neglect, and life in the foster care system.
Family crisis, parental suicide attempt (off-screen but discussed), domestic instability, police involvement, foster care placement, and depictions of intense panic attacks.
A 12-year-old who feels responsible for keeping their family together or a child who is experiencing the physical symptoms of anxiety and needs to see that those feelings are manageable and valid.
Parents should be aware of the off-page suicide attempt of Brian's father, as this is the catalyst for the foster care plot. The book can be read cold by most middle schoolers, but children with a history of family trauma may benefit from reading it alongside a parent to process the depictions of the child welfare system. A child expressing that they feel like they have to 'be strong' or 'hide their feelings' so they don't burden their parents, or a child who has recently experienced a sudden change in their living situation.
A 10-year-old will likely focus on the high-stakes drama of running away and the 'will-they-won't-they' tension of the crush. A 14-year-old will more deeply internalize the nuances of the mental health representation and the systemic pressures of the foster care system.
This book stands out for its raw and honest depiction of male vulnerability. It successfully de-stigmatizes panic attacks and domestic crisis while simultaneously offering a sweet, affirming look at queer self-discovery without making the identity itself the source of the trauma.
Brian is a middle schooler struggling with severe anxiety whose life is upended when his father's legal troubles and a subsequent suicide attempt lead to Brian and his brother being placed in foster care. While Brian navigates panic attacks and the trauma of displacement, his classmate Ezra navigates the social complexities of a first crush on Brian. The narrative follows their converging paths as they learn to trust others with their secrets and find safety in vulnerability.
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