
Reach for this book when your middle schooler is navigating the dual pressures of a changing body and a changing family structure. Tina C. is a self-conscious twelve-year-old who feels out of place because of her height and her parents' divorce. As she prepares for her father's second wedding and her own summer debut at a local club, she must reconcile her insecurities with the reality of her new blended family. This story is a gentle, realistic exploration of late-childhood anxiety, identity, and the realization that parents are flawed people too. It is particularly helpful for children who feel they are 'growing up too fast' or who struggle with jealousy toward a parent's new partner. The 1980s setting provides a nostalgic but still highly relevant backdrop for discussions about self-image and loyalty.
Reflections on the pain of divorce and feeling like an outsider in a new family.
The book deals directly and secularly with divorce and remarriage. The approach is grounded in realism. It explores the 'telltale' signs of adult unhappiness and the friction inherent in blended families. The resolution is hopeful but pragmatic: the parents do not get back together, and Tina must accept the new status quo.
A middle schooler who feels like an outlier, particularly a girl who is physically developing faster than her friends and feels 'too big' for her world. It is also perfect for a child trying to navigate the loyalty bind that often accompanies a parent's remarriage.
The book can be read cold. Parents may want to discuss the 1980s context of body image, as some language around weight and height reflects the era's sensibilities. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly withdrawn or critical of their own appearance, or perhaps acting out with jealousy when a new partner enters the family dynamic.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the humor and the sibling dynamics. Older readers (11-13) will deeply resonate with the social hierarchy and the nuanced discomfort of the wedding preparations.
Unlike many 'divorce books' that focus on the immediate split, Lila Perl captures the 'second wave' of adjustment: the remarriage and the lingering, quiet insecurities that persist years after the initial separation.
Tina C. is a twelve-year-old girl navigating a pivotal summer. Standing at five-foot-seven, she feels awkward and oversized compared to her peers. Her life is further complicated by her parents' divorce: she lives with her mother and younger brother, but must spend time with her father and his soon-to-be second wife, Sheila. The story follows Tina as she prepares for her father's wedding, deals with a competitive social circle at a summer club, and learns to accept her physical self while managing the emotional tug-of-war between her two households.
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