
A parent should reach for this book when they notice their child becoming hyper-focused on food, exercise, or body shape as they enter the middle school years. This sensitive and realistic novel follows Sarah, a talented basketball player who begins to restrict her eating because she is afraid her changing body will slow her down on the court. It explores the complex intersection of sports performance, puberty, and the subtle ways adult behaviors can influence a child's relationship with food. Appropriate for ages 10 to 14, Taking Up Space provides a vital mirror for children experiencing the pressure to be 'perfect.' It is a compassionate tool for opening a dialogue about disordered eating, self-worth, and the importance of fueling one's body. Parents will appreciate the focus on internal validation and the realistic depiction of a mother-daughter dynamic where both characters are struggling with their own body image issues.
Depicts the emotional toll of disordered eating and body dysmorphia.
The book deals directly and realistically with disordered eating and body dysmorphia. The approach is secular and contemporary. While the subject matter is heavy, the resolution is hopeful, emphasizing that recovery is a process that requires support from adults and professionals.
A middle-schooler who is a high-achiever in sports or academics and feels that their self-worth is tied to their physical appearance or 'perfection.' It is especially resonant for a child who may be observing a parent's own dieting behaviors.
Parents should be aware that the book describes specific calorie-counting behaviors and food restriction. It may be helpful to read alongside the child to discuss the mother's role in Sarah's struggle, as the mother is not a villain but is herself struggling. A parent might reach for this when they hear their child say they aren't hungry after practice, or when they notice their child checking themselves in the mirror with a critical eye or making comments about needing to 'burn off' a meal.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the sports and friendship drama, while older readers (13-14) will more deeply internalize the nuances of the body image struggle and the psychological pressure of performance.
Unlike many books that focus on a clinical diagnosis of anorexia, this book focuses on the 'gray area' of disordered eating and how diet culture is often passed down through families, making it relatable to a much broader audience.
Sarah is a competitive basketball player starting to feel the physical changes of puberty. Influenced by her mother's own disordered eating habits and the pressure to succeed on the court, Sarah begins to restrict her food intake and obsess over her weight. She believes that staying 'thin' is the only way to remain fast and keep her spot on the team. The story follows her journey as she navigates friendships, a first crush, and the realization that she needs professional help to repair her relationship with food and herself.
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