
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is feeling like an outsider or struggling with the moral complexity of a peer group's collective grief. It is a sharp, funny, and deeply honest look at Albert Kim, a self proclaimed loser who finally finds love, only to have his relationship sidelined by a popular classmate's cancer diagnosis. The story explores the heavy intersections of terminal illness, first love, and Korean American identity. It is best suited for older teens who can appreciate a cynical but ultimately vulnerable narrator. Parents will value how it tackles the messy, unheroic feelings of jealousy and resentment that often accompany high school social dynamics.
Teenage dating, kissing, and emotional intimacy.
Deals with terminal illness of a peer and the decline of a parent.
The book deals directly with terminal illness (both a peer and a parent) and the looming threat of death. The approach is secular and starkly realistic, avoiding the 'noble sick person' trope. It captures the uncomfortable reality that people can be both ill and manipulative. The resolution is bittersweet and grounded in reality rather than a miracle cure.
A high schooler who feels like an underdog and struggles with the pressure to be 'nice' when they feel invisible. It is perfect for a student navigating the 'sandwich' of a parent's illness and their own social drama.
Parents should be aware of some frank high school language and the nuanced depiction of Al's father's illness. The book can be read cold but may spark conversations about the ethics of 'performing' grief. A parent might notice their child retreating into cynicism or expressing frustration that a peer's misfortune is overshadowing their own life or needs.
Younger teens will focus on the romantic rivalry and the humor. Older teens will grasp the deeper themes of the complexity of parental loss.
Unlike many 'sick-lit' YA novels, this book focuses on the person left on the sidelines. It is a rare, subversion of the genre that allows its protagonist to be angry and selfish while dealing with tragedy. """
Albert Kim is a cynical high schooler who spent his life flying under the radar until a summer job leads to an unexpected romance with Mia. Their happiness is short-lived when Mia's ex, the beloved Ryan Stackhouse, is diagnosed with cancer. The school rallies around Ryan, and Mia is pulled back into his orbit out of obligation and pity. Al must navigate his intense jealousy, his own father's declining health, and the realization that the world sees him as a supporting character in Ryan's tragedy.
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