
Reach for this book when your child is facing the social isolation that often follows a major life transition, like moving to a new school or state. It is a deeply resonant choice for the kid who feels like an outsider and chooses to retreat into a niche hobby rather than face the vulnerability of making new friends. The story follows Bobby, a seventh grader who copes with his loneliness by telling elaborate lies and obsessing over his pet tarantulas. Parents will find this a valuable tool for discussing the difference between privacy and secrecy, as well as the unintended consequences of 'tall tales' used as a social shield. It is a realistic, middle-grade look at the messy process of finding your footing when you feel like a freak in a new environment. Ralph Fletcher captures the specific anxieties of middle school with a gentle, honest touch that validates a child's need for a safe emotional harbor.
Bobby experiences significant loneliness and homesickness for his old life.
Description of spiders and their feeding habits might be unsettling for arachnophobes.
The book deals with bullying and social isolation in a very direct, secular manner. There is also the theme of dishonesty as a defense mechanism. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: Bobby doesn't suddenly become the most popular kid, but he finds a sustainable way to be himself and earns respect through honesty.
A 10 to 12 year old boy who has a 'niche' interest and feels that this interest makes him uncool or isolated. It is perfect for the child who has recently moved and is struggling to translate their old identity into a new social hierarchy.
Read the scenes involving the bully, Chick Hall, to prepare for discussions on how to handle verbal harassment. The book can be read cold, but be ready to talk about why people lie when they are scared. A parent might see their child making up stories to sound 'cooler' to new friends or witnessing their child being teased for a specific, unusual hobby.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the cool spider facts and the 'mean' kids. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of Bobby's internal shame and the complexity of his deceptive behavior.
Unlike many 'new kid' books that focus on sports or general popularity, this one highlights a scientifically-minded protagonist whose 'weird' hobby is both his sanctuary and his social barrier.
Bobby Cohen has just moved from Ohio to Illinois, leaving behind his best friend and his sense of belonging. In his new school, he is a target for bullies and feels like an alien. To cope, he retreats into his intense passion for spiders, keeping tarantulas as pets and keeping a 'Spider Journal.' To impress or deflect his peers, he begins telling elaborate lies about his past life. The story follows his internal struggle to maintain these fabrications while navigating a blooming friendship and the harsh reality of school bullies.
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