
Reach for this book when your child feels like they are being shielded from the truth about a family separation or living arrangement. Conrad is a thirteen year old boy living with relatives in St. Louis while his parents live separate lives in New York City. Driven by a need for clarity, he travels to Manhattan to confront them and find out why they are not a family anymore. It is a poignant exploration of parental neglect, the fantasy of reconciliation, and the painful but necessary process of seeing parents as flawed humans. For children ages 10 to 14, this story provides a realistic and unsentimental look at finding your own identity when your home life feels fractured.
Themes of parental neglect and the realization that parents are not coming back.
The book deals with parental abandonment and divorce in a very direct, secular, and starkly realistic manner. There is no magical reconciliation. The resolution is hopeful only in the sense that Conrad gains agency and self-awareness, but it is emotionally heavy.
A middle schooler who feels 'caught in the middle' of a high-conflict divorce or a kinship care situation. It is for the child who suspects adults are lying to them to 'protect' them and who prefers a gritty, honest story over a sugar-coated one.
Read the scenes where Conrad meets his father and then his mother. These are the emotional crucibles of the book and may require a post-reading check-in to see how the child processed the parents' rejection. Parents may find the depiction of Conrad's biological parents difficult, as they are portrayed as self-absorbed and somewhat indifferent to their son's emotional needs.
Younger readers (10) might focus on the 'adventure' of running away to the city, while older readers (13-14) will deeply feel the stinging social and emotional rejection Conrad faces.
Unlike many 'divorce books' that focus on logistics, Avi focuses on the internal psychological state of the child and the brave act of letting go of a dream that isn't coming true.
Conrad lives with his aunt and uncle, feeling like a guest in his own life. Believing his parents in New York still want him but are simply 'busy,' he runs away to the city. Along the way, he meets a girl named Joy who is also dealing with her own family complexities. The story follows Conrad as he visits both his mother and father separately, only to realize that neither is capable of providing the home he craves. He eventually finds closure by accepting his reality rather than his fantasy.
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