
Reach for this book when your child is beginning to question the rigid labels of the world or feels like they don't quite fit into the binary boxes of sports and school. Mars, formerly known as Veronica, is a talented figure skater navigating the technicalities of a gendered sport while privately mourning the death of their father. It is a deeply empathetic look at the courage it takes to be oneself when the rules haven't caught up to your reality. This story is perfect for middle-grade readers (ages 8-12) because it balances the heavy themes of grief and identity with the universal middle school experiences of friendship, competition, and finding one's voice. Parents will appreciate how it models supportive adult-child relationships and advocates for structural change rather than just individual resilience.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals heavily with the death of a parent and the subsequent grief experienced by the protagonist and their family.
A middle-grade student (ages 10-13) who feels stifled by gendered expectations in sports or extracurriculars, or a child who is struggling to reconnect with a hobby they once shared with a loved one who has passed away.
This book can be read cold, though parents should be prepared to discuss grief and the ways organizations sometimes have outdated rules that exclude people. There are no scenes requiring specific content warnings beyond the theme of parental loss. A parent might reach for this book when their child says, 'I don't want to go to practice anymore because I don't feel like I belong in that group,' or when a child is struggling to talk about a parent they have lost.
A younger reader (age 8 or 9) will focus on the 'fairness' aspect of the sports competition and the sadness of missing a parent. An older reader (age 11 or 12) will better grasp the nuance of gender identity, the technicalities of the skating world, and the complexity of moving forward after a tragedy.
Unlike many stories that focus solely on the social aspects of coming out, this book highlights the structural and institutional barriers in high-stakes sports, showing that personal courage is often met with a need for systemic change.
Mars is a dedicated figure skater who is transitioning and coming out as nonbinary. As they navigate their gender identity, they face a systemic barrier: the figure skating world is strictly divided into 'Ladies' and 'Men's' categories. While Mars works to find a place for themselves on the ice, they are also grappling with the recent death of their father, a loss that looms large over their family and their motivation to skate.
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