
Reach for this book when your teenager is beginning to question the 'sanitized' versions of family history or is struggling to reconcile their love for an elder with that person's problematic views. This story addresses the painful intersection of aging, memory loss, and the unearthing of uncomfortable ancestral truths. As Hilly's grandmother, HeidiGran, succumbs to Alzheimer's, her slipping filters reveal a past linked to Nazi Germany and a secret identity that shatters the family's sense of self. It is a sophisticated exploration of how historical trauma and prejudice trickle down through generations. Parents will appreciate the book's refusal to offer easy answers, instead providing a framework for discussing racism, the ethics of secrecy, and how to maintain empathy for a relative whose past actions or current words are hurtful. It is best suited for mature readers ages 13 and up due to its heavy themes of wartime atrocities and modern day hate crimes.
The slow decline of a grandparent due to Alzheimer's is portrayed with painful honesty.
Includes a scene of a violent hate crime against a teenage character.
The book deals directly with the Holocaust, Hitler Youth indoctrination, and Alzheimer's disease. The approach is realistic and historical. It explores the 'banality of evil' through a secular lens. The resolution is bittersweet and realistic: the grandmother's health continues to decline.
A thoughtful 14-year-old who is interested in history but wants to see how it connects to the present day. It is perfect for a teen who feels a disconnect between the 'good' person they know (their grandparent) and the prejudiced things that person might say or have done.
Parents should be aware of the scenes involving neo-Nazi violence in the present day and the descriptions of the 'Sisterland' (the League of German Girls) during the war. It is helpful to have a basic understanding of the Kindertransport and the Nuremberg Laws to provide context. A parent might see their child expressing shock or disgust at an older relative's racist remarks or actions, or finding out a family secret related to Nazi Germany that makes them feel conflicted.
Younger teens (12-13) will focus on the mystery of HeidiGran's past. Older teens (15-17) will better grasp the nuance of Hilly's moral dilemma: how do you reconcile love for someone with their participation in a hateful system?
Unlike many Holocaust novels that focus on victims, this book courageously explores the perspective of the 'ordinary' German family and the lingering guilt passed to their descendants. ```
Hilly's life is disrupted when her German grandmother, HeidiGran, moves in while suffering from Alzheimer's. As the disease progresses, HeidiGran's confusion leads to the revelation of a hidden past in Nazi Germany. Simultaneously, Hilly's contemporary life is rocked by a racist attack on her friend Ruben. The narrative weaves together the mystery of a girl named Rachel from HeidiGran's youth and Hilly's own awakening to the persistence of prejudice in the modern world.
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