
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with a deep sense of longing for a parent who is physically or emotionally distant, or when they feel like they don't quite fit into their current living situation. It is a poignant historical tale about eleven-year-old Lexie, who lives with her strict grandparents while dreaming of reuniting with her glamorous, carefree mother in San Francisco. Set against the unique backdrop of the 1926 Friendship Doll exchange between the US and Japan, the story explores themes of resilience, the complexity of adult relationships, and the realization that the people we idolize are often flawed. It is a gentle yet honest look at family dynamics, making it an excellent choice for children aged 8 to 12 who are navigating parental separation, kinship care, or the bittersweet process of growing up.
Lexie deals with feelings of being unwanted by her mother and stepfather.
The book deals with parental abandonment and neglect through a realistic, secular lens. Lexie's mother is not 'evil,' but she is self-centered and chooses her career and new husband over her daughter. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Lexie finds stability with her grandparents rather than a fairy-tale reunion.
A middle-grade reader who feels like an outsider in their own home, or a child who 'over-identifies' with a distant parent and needs to see a protagonist find strength in the family that is actually present.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the 1920s setting, specifically the 'Committee on World Friendship Among Children.' It is helpful to read the author's note together to understand the true history of the Blue-Eyed Dolls. A parent might notice their child constantly making excuses for an absent relative or expressing a belief that their 'real life' will only start when a certain person returns.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the quest and the dolls; older readers (11-12) will deeply feel the sting of the mother's rejection and Lexie's internal conflict between loyalty and truth.
Unlike many historical novels that focus on war, this uses a unique, peaceful cultural exchange (the Friendship Dolls) to mirror the protagonist's internal need for connection.
In 1926 Portland, Lexie Lewis lives under the rigid rules of her grandparents while her mother pursues a singing career in San Francisco. When Lexie's school participates in a national project to send dolls to Japan as ambassadors of peace, she sees a contest to accompany the dolls to their departure port as her golden ticket home. Along the way, she must navigate school rivalries, her own secret motivations, and the painful truth about why her mother isn't coming to get her.
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