
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is preparing for a major life transition, like heading to college, or is navigating the vulnerability of a first serious crush. It is an ideal choice for a teen who feels like an outsider or struggles with social anxiety and needs to see that authenticity is the key to connection. The story follows two very different girls, one confident but guarded and the other shy and awkward, who form an unlikely alliance during their freshman year of university. It explores themes of self-discovery, the courage to be seen, and the importance of finding friends who support your true self. While it is a sweet romance, the emotional core focuses on breaking out of old patterns and learning that you do not have to change who you are to find love. It is a modern, inclusive, and heartening read for the 14 to 18 age range.
Sweet romance with kissing and emotional intimacy, no explicit sexual content.
Explores feelings of loneliness, social anxiety, and strained parental relationships.
Depicts college parties with alcohol and mentions a parent's struggle with alcoholism.
It also addresses parental neglect and alcoholism (Alex's mother) with a realistic and eventually hopeful resolution that emphasizes setting boundaries.
A high school senior or college freshman who feels like they are wearing a mask in social situations. This is for the student who worries they are 'too much' or 'not enough' for the people they like.
Parents should be aware of some mild swearing and a few scenes involving college parties and drinking. The story explores the tension between presenting a certain image to gain acceptance and embracing authentic personal growth. Parents might want to discuss with their teens the difference between healthy self-improvement and compromising one's values to please others, particularly in the context of romantic relationships. A parent might notice their child retreating from social events or expressing deep anxiety about 'fitting in' or 'saying the wrong thing' as they transition to a new school environment.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the 'slow burn' romance and the fun of the 'plan.' Older teens (17+) will resonate more with the anxiety of leaving home and the complicated dynamics of parent-child relationships.
Unlike many YA romances that focus on the 'coming out' struggle, this book centers on the 'staying in' struggle, how to be yourself once you are already out and navigating the adult world. """
Alex Blackwood is a serial dater who is actually terrified of commitment. Molly Parker is a shy, organized freshman with a massive crush on a girl named Cora. When their paths cross at a college party in Pittsburgh, Alex proposes a 'Hitch' style makeover to help Molly get the girl, mostly to prove to her own ex that she is not selfish. As the plan unfolds, the two realize their performative dating advice is leading to genuine feelings for each other.
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