
A parent might reach for this book when they notice a teenager struggling with the weight of being the perfect child or displaying early signs of disordered eating. It is a poignant, first person account of Leslie, a fourteen year old girl who feels like she is disappearing into a cycle of self starvation to maintain control over her life and image. This story moves beyond the physical symptoms to explore the intense shame, guilt, and anxiety that drive her behavior. While the book is emotionally heavy, it serves as an essential tool for opening honest conversations about body image and the pressure to excel. It is most appropriate for mature middle schoolers and high school students who are ready to engage with realistic portrayals of mental health. Parents will find this a helpful resource for validating their child's inner struggle while highlighting the difficulty of asking for professional help.
Depicts the grueling psychological and physical toll of anorexia nervosa.
The book deals directly and intensely with anorexia, self-harm through starvation, and the psychological toll of mental illness. The approach is secular and starkly realistic. The resolution is realistic rather than neatly tied up; Leslie survives and enters treatment, but the reader understands the long road of recovery ahead.
A mature 13 to 15-year-old who feels immense pressure to succeed and may be internalizing their stress. It is for the 'good kid' who feels they aren't allowed to have problems.
Parents should preview the scenes where Leslie describes her methods for hiding food and her distorted body image, as these can be triggering or accidentally instructional for some readers. It is best read with the parent available for debriefing. A parent might notice their child becoming obsessive about calorie counting, withdrawing from family meals, or becoming uncharacteristically secretive about their body and health.
Younger teens may focus on the family conflict and the physical danger, while older teens will more likely resonate with the themes of identity, the fear of growing up, and the burden of parental expectations.
Written in the late 1970s and republished, it remains a seminal text because it focuses less on the medical mechanics and more on the voice of the girl who feels she must be 'perfect' to be loved.
Leslie is a bright, high-achieving 14-year-old girl who seemingly has everything: a loving family, good friends, and academic success. However, an internal drive for perfection leads her to begin a restrictive diet. What starts as a simple desire to lose a few pounds quickly spirals into anorexia nervosa. The narrative follows her internal monologue as she hides her habits from her mother and eventually faces hospitalization, struggling to reconcile her need for control with the reality of her illness.
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