
A parent should reach for this book when their child is expressing vocal resentment or deep-seated frustration regarding a divorce or the introduction of new partners. It is a perfect choice for the pre-teen who uses sarcasm as a shield and is struggling to reconcile the reality of two separate, evolving households. The story follows ten-year-old Sarah Simpson, a list-maker who maintains a set of strict rules to protect herself from the disappointment of her parents' new lives. As she navigates a school play and new friendships, she begins to see that her parents' new partners are not the villains she imagined. This book is developmentally perfect for ages 9 to 12, offering a humorous yet deeply honest look at the messy process of accepting a blended family. It validates a child's right to be angry while gently nudging them toward the realization that change, while difficult, does not mean the end of love.
Deals with the emotional fallout of divorce and feelings of abandonment.
The book deals directly with divorce and blended families. The approach is secular and highly realistic. It does not offer a magical reconciliation of the parents, but rather a hopeful and grounded resolution where the child learns to coexist with and even appreciate new family members.
A 10 or 11-year-old girl who feels like her life has been hijacked by her parents' dating lives and who uses humor or list-making as a coping mechanism to regain a sense of control.
The book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared for Sarah's early bitterness toward the 'step-parents,' which is portrayed with stinging accuracy but is necessary for her character growth. A parent might see their child being intentionally rude to a new partner, making 'lists' of things they hate about a new house, or retreating into a shell of 'rules' to avoid being hurt again.
Younger readers (age 8-9) will enjoy the school dynamics and the cats, while older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the nuanced feelings of betrayal and the internal conflict of wanting to like a new step-parent but feeling disloyal to the other biological parent.
Unlike many books on divorce that focus on the immediate separation, this book focuses on the 'new normal' years later, specifically the introduction of step-parents, handled with a sharp, sophisticated wit that respects the reader's intelligence.
Ten-year-old Sarah Simpson is unhappy. Her father has moved to California and remarried a woman Sarah calls 'The Blonde,' and her mother has a new boyfriend who is always around. Sarah manages her world by making lists and following cynical rules for living. The narrative follows Sarah as she navigates her fifth-grade year, deals with her resentment toward her stepmother and her mother's boyfriend, and eventually finds a way to move toward acceptance through her involvement in a school production of Alice in Wonderland.
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