
A parent would reach for this book when their child feels like they are living in the shadow of a sibling, especially if that sibling is making destructive choices. It is a lifeline for the child who feels invisible at home because all the family's energy is consumed by a crisis or a charismatic, high-needs relative. The story follows Sydney, whose life is upended when her popular brother is sent to prison after a drunk-driving accident. While her parents remain obsessed with her brother's well-being, Sydney struggles with her own guilt and isolation. She eventually finds a sense of belonging with the MacChathain family, whose chaotic but warm pizza shop provides the acceptance she lacks at home. This is a grounded, realistic look at identity and secondary trauma for teenagers ages 13 and up. It offers a powerful message that you are allowed to be your own person, even when your family is falling apart.
Sweet, slow-burn romance with some kissing.
Focuses on the emotional impact of a sibling's incarceration and parental neglect.
Discussion of drunk driving, alcoholism, and the consequences of substance abuse.
The book handles incarceration, victimhood, and drunk driving with a direct, secular approach. It avoids easy forgiveness, focusing instead on the realistic, messy fallout of crime. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Sydney doesn't fix her family, but she learns to survive them.
A high schooler who is a caregiver or a 'quiet one' in a high-conflict family. Perfect for the teen who feels guilty for wanting their own happiness while someone else is in crisis.
Parents should be aware that an older character attempts to take advantage of Sydney's vulnerability by offering her alcohol and pressuring her to keep their interactions a secret. This could be unsettling and may require a conversation about healthy boundaries and consent. A parent might see their child withdrawing or becoming excessively compliant while the parent is focused on another child's health, behavioral, or legal issues.
Younger teens will focus on the budding romance and the fun of the pizza shop. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the themes of parental enabling and the ethics of loyalty.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the person making the mistakes, Dessen shifts the lens entirely to the sibling left behind, validating the 'collateral damage' experience. """
Sydney has spent her life being the invisible sister to her charismatic brother, Peyton. When Peyton is incarcerated for a drunk-driving accident that paralyzed a local teen, Sydney's parents become obsessed with his legal battles and rehabilitation. Left to drift, Sydney finds solace at Seaside Pizza, owned by the MacChathain family. Through her friendship with the boisterous Layla and the quiet, observant Mac, Sydney begins to see herself outside the context of her brother's crimes and her mother's suffocating denial.
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