
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to reconnect with a parent after a long deployment or hospital stay, or when they feel hesitant around a family member who has become a stranger. Set against the backdrop of post-World War II London, the story follows young Ruby as she navigates the confusing mixture of excitement and fear that comes when her father finally returns from the war. It is a tender exploration of how love needs time to grow back after being apart. Shirley Hughes captures the delicate reality that reunions aren't always immediate fairy tales. Ruby finds her father's presence loud and his appearance unfamiliar, which is a deeply normalizing experience for children in military or separated families. Best suited for children ages 5 to 9, this book provides a safe space to discuss the 'slow magic' of getting to know someone again. It offers comfort by showing that it is okay to feel shy and that patience leads to a restored bond.
Illustrations of bombed-out buildings and ruins in London.
The book depicts the physical destruction of war (rubble, ruins) and the emotional strain of long-term separation. The approach is realistic but secular, focusing on the human psyche. The resolution is hopeful and grounded: they aren't 'fixed' instantly, but they are on the right path.
An elementary student whose parent is returning from a long military deployment, or a child meeting a biological parent for the first time after a long absence who feels guilty about their lack of immediate 'spark' or connection.
Parents should be aware of the illustrations of bombed-out buildings. While not graphic, they convey a sense of loss. Read this alongside the child to validate that the 'stranger danger' feeling Ruby has is normal. A parent might notice their child pulling away during a reunion or saying something like, 'I liked it better when it was just us,' or 'You don't do it the way Mommy does.'
Younger children (5-6) will focus on the physical changes and the 'new' person in the house. Older children (8-9) will better grasp the historical context of the Blitz and the deeper psychological toll of the father's experiences.
Unlike many 'reunion' books that end at the train station with a hug, Hughes focuses on the difficult, awkward days that follow the hug.
Ruby and her mother have survived the London Blitz, living in a city of ruins and rationing. Throughout the war, they have clung to the hope of Dad's return. When he finally arrives at the station, Ruby is overwhelmed. He is tall, he smells different, and he occupies physical and emotional space that Ruby and Mum had managed alone. The story follows their first few days together as Ruby moves from avoidance and shyness to a moment of shared connection that begins the healing process.
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