
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the heavy silence of a family loss or the confusion of seeing their parents paralyzed by grief. Set in a 1966 Italian-American neighborhood in Chicago, the story follows ten-year-old Rosa, whose excitement for a new sibling turns to profound loneliness after her mother suffers a late-term miscarriage. It is a tender exploration of how a child navigates their own sorrow when the adults around them are too broken to provide their usual support. This book is a thoughtful choice for middle-grade readers who need to see their complicated feelings of abandonment, faith, and resilience reflected in a realistic historical setting. It offers a path toward healing and the reminder that joy can eventually return to a household darkened by tragedy.
Depicts deep parental grief and the emotional impact of a stillborn sibling.
The book deals directly with the death of an infant (stillbirth). The book reflects 1960s cultural norms around grief and mental health, which may seem outdated to modern readers. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the slow process of emotional recovery rather than a quick fix.
A thoughtful 9 to 11 year old who feels they are carrying the weight of family emotions or a child who has experienced a loss and feels that the adults in their life are 'different' because of their own mourning.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the concept of miscarriage or stillbirth. The scenes where the mother refuses to leave her room are emotionally taxing and may require conversation about clinical depression. Parents may be moved by the depiction of the mother’s deep depression and the father’s inability to communicate, which leaves Rosa feeling neglected. It is a reminder of how parental grief impacts children.
Younger readers (age 8) will focus on Rosa’s loneliness and her desire for a friend. Older readers (age 11-12) will better grasp the historical context and the nuances of the parents' marriage under stress.
Unlike many books on grief that focus on the death of a peer or grandparent, this highlights the specific 'silent' loss of a sibling and the unique challenges faced by immigrant families navigating grief in a new country during the 1960s.
In 1966 Chicago, Rosa is an only child. She is thrilled when her mother becomes pregnant, hoping to finally end her loneliness. However, the baby is stillborn, and the family is thrust into a period of intense, stifling grief. Rosa’s mother retreats into depression, her father becomes distant, and Rosa is left to navigate her fourth-grade life and her faith while feeling invisible in her own home.
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