
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is withdrawing after a significant loss, particularly the death of a parent or a difficult breakup. It is designed for the child who is 'ghosting' their own life and needs to see a reflection of their own numbness and anger validated without being lectured. The story follows Stiggy, a teen who hits the road in his late father's car to escape the suffocating silence of his home life. As he travels through the Midwest, the narrative explores the messy reality of grief, the search for a self-defined identity, and the slow process of letting go of the past. It is a raw, secular, and deeply honest look at the transition from childhood to adulthood under the weight of tragedy. Parents will find it a valuable tool for opening doors to conversations about mental health, male vulnerability, and the fact that healing isn't a straight line. It is most appropriate for high schoolers due to its heavy themes and realistic tone.
Realistic teenage profanity throughout.
Deep exploration of depression, grief, and abandonment.
Occasional mentions of drinking or smoking in a realistic context.
Death of a parent by suicide, depression, suicidal ideation, grief, underage drinking, and mentions of prescription drug misuse.
A high schooler who is struggling with 'complicated grief,' specifically a teen who feels angry or betrayed by a loved one's death. It is perfect for the reader who rejects 'sentimental' books and needs a protagonist who feels as cynical and lost as they do.
Parents should be aware that the book deals explicitly with the aftermath of suicide. It is best to read this alongside the teen or ensure a support system is in place, as the protagonist's initial outlook is very dark. No specific page needs to be skipped, but the themes of self-harm should be discussed. A parent likely sees their teenager becoming increasingly uncommunicative, perhaps 'ghosting' friends or showing a sudden, reckless disregard for their future and safety after a family tragedy.
Younger teens (13-14) may focus on the adventure and 'freedom' of the road trip, while older teens (17-18) will more deeply resonate with the existential dread and the complex task of forgiving a parent for their flaws.
Unlike many YA books about grief that focus on tears and community, this book highlights the isolation and 'ugliness' of male grieving. It honors the protagonist's need to be alone and his right to be furious, making the eventual healing feel earned rather than forced.
After his father dies by suicide and his girlfriend breaks up with him, seventeen-year-old Stiggy takes off in his late father’s car with a bottle of pills and no clear plan. His aimless road trip through the Midwest is a journey of avoidance that slowly turns into an internal confrontation with his anger, his numbness, and the reality of his father's mental illness. Along the way, he encounters various people who force him to engage with the world he is trying to leave behind.
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