
Reach for this book when you notice your middle schooler pulling away from long-time friends who seem more focused on dating or locker room talk than they are. It is perfect for children who feel like they are performing a role that does not fit but are not yet sure what their true identity looks like. Rick is a gentle, realistic story about an eleven-year-old boy navigating the transition to middle school and the realization that he does not experience romantic or sexual attraction the way his peers do. Through the lens of the school's Rainbow Spectrum club, Rick explores the concept of being asexual and aromantic without the story feeling like a textbook. The book handles middle school social dynamics with great empathy, touching on themes of toxic masculinity, bullying, and the importance of finding a community where you can just be yourself. It is a vital choice for normalizing the 'opt-out' of the social pressures surrounding puberty, providing a hopeful roadmap for kids who feel like they are developing on a different timeline than their friends.
Middle school insults and some explicit talk about 'hot girls' from peers and Rick's father.
Rick struggles with staying loyal to a friend who is a bully.
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A 10 to 12 year old who feels like they are failing at the social games of puberty. This is for the child who is bored or confused by their peers' sudden obsession with dating and feels pressured to pretend they have crushes just to fit in.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to familiarize themselves with the terms asexual and aromantic to support the conversations that will likely follow, but the book defines these terms naturally through the narrative. A parent might reach for this book after hearing their child express anxiety about being weird for not liking anyone, or after seeing their child struggle to stay friends with someone who has become a bully.
An 8 or 9 year old will focus on the friendship drama and the bravery required to stand up to a bully. A 12 year old will more deeply resonate with the specific pressures of middle school hookup culture and the relief of finding an identity that fits.
While many middle grade books focus on LGBTQ+ identities involving same-sex attraction, Rick is one of the very few that centers on the asexual and aromantic experience. It brilliantly validates the choice to opt out of the romantic narrative entirely.
Eleven-year-old Rick Ramsey is entering middle school and feels increasingly alienated by his best friend Jeff's mean-spirited behavior and hyper-fixation on girls. While his father assumes Rick's lack of interest in dating is just a phase of being a late bloomer, Rick finds himself drawn to the Rainbow Spectrum club. There, he learns about the asexuality spectrum and begins to understand that his lack of romantic or sexual attraction is a valid identity. The story follows Rick as he gains the courage to distance himself from toxic friendships and embrace his true self.
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