
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is navigating the bewildering waters of a first crush, especially one that feels high-stakes or socially complicated. It is particularly suited for families where a child is questioning their sexual identity while simultaneously processing the strain of a parental separation. The story follows Ashleigh, a girl who feels like she is just drifting through life until a magnetic new English teacher sparks both an academic awakening and an intense romantic obsession. Ashleigh's journey explores the boundaries between admiration and love, the weight of keeping secrets, and the courage required to be authentic. While the central crush is on a teacher, the book handles the power dynamic with care, focusing on Ashleigh's internal growth and identity rather than an inappropriate relationship. It is an honest, secular look at the teenage experience, appropriate for ages 14 and up, helping parents open doors to conversations about healthy boundaries and self-discovery.
Intense romantic obsession and a crush on a teacher, though no physical relationship occurs.
Depicts the emotional strain of parents separating and the isolation of keeping secrets.
References to teenage drinking at parties.
The book deals directly with sexual identity and the breakdown of a marriage. The teacher-student crush is a central plot point, but it is handled realistically and responsibly; it is a story of internal realization rather than physical misconduct. The approach is secular and the resolution is hopeful and empowering.
A high schooler who feels like they are playing a part in their own life. This is for the student who feels 'in-between' and is looking for a story about the messy, confusing process of identifying as LGBTQ+ in an environment that feels traditional.
Parents should be aware that there is some mild profanity (within the context of poetry discussed in class) and drinking. The book is best for older teens who can understand the distinction between Ashleigh's feelings and the professional boundaries a teacher must maintain. Parents may feel protective or concerned regarding the student-teacher crush. The moment Ashleigh realizes her feelings are romantic and not just platonic admiration is the primary catalyst for the story's tension.
Younger teens will focus on the drama of the crush and the school setting. Older teens will resonate more with the existential dread of 'what comes next' and the nuance of Ashleigh's parents' failing relationship.
Unlike many coming-out stories that focus on a peer-to-peer romance, this book captures the specific, painful intensity of a crush on a mentor figure as a vehicle for self-discovery.
Ashleigh Walker is a teenager who feels unremarkable. Her parents are constantly fighting, and her relationship with her boyfriend is lukewarm. Everything changes when she meets Miss Murray, a young, vibrant English teacher who introduces Ashleigh to poetry and makes her feel seen. Ashleigh develops a consuming crush on Miss Murray, which forces her to confront her sexuality and navigate the crumbling state of her parents' marriage.
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