
Reach for this book when you notice your teenager is the 'peacekeeper' of the family, carrying the emotional weight of everyone else's problems while staying silent about their own. This lyrical novel follows Georgia, a girl who finds herself navigating the 'loudness' of a father struggling with mental illness and a best friend in crisis, all while trying to maintain her own 'quiet.' It is a deeply moving exploration of parent-child role reversal, the burden of secondary trauma, and the necessity of setting boundaries for one's own survival. While the themes are sophisticated and heavy, the writing is beautiful and grounded in the healing power of nature and friendship. It is an ideal choice for older teens (14+) who are highly empathetic or feel pressured to be the 'stable one' in a chaotic environment. Parents can use this story to validate their child's need for space and to open a dialogue about the fact that they are not responsible for fixing the adults in their lives.
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Sign in to write a reviewIncludes a gentle, queer romance subplot.
Depictions of parental mental health crises, PTSD, and the emotional toll on children.
References to alcohol use as a coping mechanism in secondary characters.
Parental mental illness and instability, secondary trauma, mention of past domestic violence, unplanned pregnancy, and emotional neglect.
An older teenager, approximately 15 to 18, who often acts as the 'emotional glue' in their household. This is for the child who feels older than their years because they are busy managing the moods or crises of the adults around them.
Parents should be aware of the depictions of the father's mental health crises. The book is best read by teens who have a baseline of emotional maturity, but the lyrical prose makes the heavy topics accessible. No specific page previews are required, but it is a good 'read-together' or 'read-parallel' book to facilitate hard conversations about family dynamics. A parent might reach for this book after witnessing their child withdraw or stop sharing their own problems because they don't want to 'burden' an already stressed parent. It is for the parent who realizes their child has become their confidant or caretaker rather than just being a kid.
Younger teens will focus on the romance and the friendship dynamics. Older teens will more deeply resonate with the looming transition to adulthood and the specific anxiety of leaving a 'broken' home behind.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the 'rebel,' this book focuses on the 'responsible one.' It uniquely captures the sensory experience of anxiety and the way trauma can feel like physical sound or silence, using the Australian coastline as a powerful metaphor for the internal landscape.
Georgia is a high school senior living on the coast of Australia, navigating the exhausting waters of parent-child role reversal. Her life is dominated by the 'loud' needs of others: a father struggling with severe mental illness and a past trauma that looms over the household, a best friend facing an unplanned pregnancy, and her own suppressed memories. As Georgia begins a new relationship and finds solace in the water, she must learn to set boundaries and prioritize her own mental health over the chaos of her family.
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