
Reach for this book when your child is convinced that a new sibling will be their instant best friend or a specific 'type' of playmate. It is the perfect tool for a child who has very fixed expectations about a new baby and needs help navigating the reality of who that baby actually is. Through the character of Princess Penelope, the story explores the common preschool experience of gender disappointment and the shift from being the center of the universe to sharing the spotlight. The story follows Penelope as she prepares for a sister but receives a brother instead. It gently validates the initial frustration and disappointment a child might feel when things do not go according to plan. As Penelope realizes her new brother can still be part of her 'royal court,' she moves toward acceptance and pride. This is an excellent choice for ages 3 to 6 to normalize 'not-so-nice' feelings while modeling a path toward sibling bonding.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles the 'gender disappointment' and sibling displacement themes in a secular, direct, and humorous way. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the child's agency in the relationship.
A preschooler or kindergartner who is used to being the 'boss' or the sole focus of the household and is struggling to accept a new baby who doesn't fit their imagined fantasy of a playmate.
Read this cold. The rhythmic text is easy to perform, but parents should be ready to talk about why Penelope looks a little grumpy in the middle of the book. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I don't want him, take him back,' or seeing the child ignore the new baby out of protest.
A 3-year-old will enjoy the 'princess' aesthetics and the simple rhythmic text. A 6-year-old will better understand the irony of Penelope's 'take charge' attitude and the emotional shift from disappointment to acceptance.
Unlike many 'new baby' books that focus on the baby's needs, this one focuses on the older sibling's perceived loss of control and her humorous way of regaining it through her 'royal' persona.
Penelope is a high-energy toddler with a strong sense of style and a clear plan: she is getting a baby sister. When her parents return with a baby brother instead, Penelope is initially dismissive. However, through small moments of interaction, she discovers that being a big sister is a leadership role she can excel at, regardless of the baby's gender.
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