
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is navigating the isolating intersection of profound grief and the vulnerability of coming out. It addresses the heavy reality of life after a parent's suicide, alongside the universal but painful experience of falling for someone who cannot return those feelings. Mike is a butch, athletic sixteen year old living in a small town who finds herself captivated by Xanadu, a new girl who is her complete opposite. This story explores self acceptance, the complexity of family dynamics in the wake of tragedy, and the courage it takes to be oneself in a restrictive environment. It is a raw, honest look at identity suitable for older teens who are ready to engage with serious emotional themes and realistic depictions of unrequited love.
Realistic teenage profanity throughout.
Teenage longing, some kissing, and discussions of sexual orientation.
Depicts maternal neglect, clinical depression, and profound loneliness.
Suicide (the father's death by suicide is a central plot point), parental abandonment and neglect, severe maternal depression, and depictions of intense emotional distress and loneliness.
A high schooler who feels like an outsider, particularly those who have experienced the loss of a parent or are dealing with the specific pain of loving a friend who doesn't share their orientation. It is perfect for the teen who prefers gritty, realistic fiction over idealized romance.
Parents should be aware that the father's suicide is discussed with significant weight, and the mother's inability to care for her children due to her own grief is a recurring theme. This book can be read cold by older teens, but those sensitive to themes of self harm in the family should be approached with care. A parent might see their child withdrawing after a loss, or perhaps their teen is facing discrimination or bullying as one of the few openly LGBTQ+ people in their community.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the intense, relatable pangs of first love and the desire to be seen. Older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the complex family dynamics and the heavy burden of responsibility Mike carries for her younger brother.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the coming out process, Mike is already out. The novel powerfully portrays the universal experience of unrequited love through the lens of Mike's butch identity, set against a backdrop of complex, realistic grief. """
Sixteen year old Mary Elizabeth, who goes by Mike, is a butch athlete living in a small Kansas town where she is already out as gay. The story centers on Mike's deep grief following her father's recent suicide and her struggle to connect with her emotionally distant, depressed mother. When a new girl named Xanadu moves to town, Mike falls deeply in love, leading to a painful exploration of unrequited love as Xanadu is straight. The narrative follows Mike's attempts to navigate her crushing crush while simultaneously trying to keep her family and herself from falling apart in the wake of tragedy.
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