
Reach for this book when your child starts noticing their first 'crushes' or feels a special, fluttery connection to a friend but doesn't see those feelings reflected in the world around them. It is a gentle tool for parents whose children are beginning to navigate the nuances of identity and affection within a school setting. The story follows Poppy, a young girl who loves school and her friend Ava. When a classroom lesson on the letter Q feels like it is missing something important, Poppy finds the courage to ask her teacher for the words that match her heart. It is a warm, age-appropriate introduction to the concept of being Queer and the power of representation. It emphasizes that no question is too big to ask and that every child deserves to see themselves in the stories they learn.
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A 5 or 6-year-old child who has developed their first 'special' friendship and is looking for the vocabulary to describe it. It is perfect for children who are naturally inquisitive and might feel frustrated when their lived experiences aren't reflected in their school curriculum.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss that 'Queer' is a beautiful, umbrella word used by many people to describe their identity and who they love. A parent might reach for this book when their child asks a question like, 'Can a girl marry a girl?' or 'Is there a word for how I feel about my best friend?' It is for the parent who wants to provide a positive, clear definition of the word Queer in a school-safe context.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the school setting and the relatable anxiety of talking to a teacher. Older children (7-8) will more deeply grasp the meta-narrative about representation and the importance of seeing one's identity acknowledged in a classroom.
While many books focus on the 'coming out' process to family, this book uniquely centers on the linguistic and academic discovery of identity. It highlights the role of an affirming teacher and the specific power of finding the 'right' word to describe oneself.
Poppy is an enthusiastic student who especially loves school because of her friend Ava. During a classroom spelling lesson on the letter Q, Poppy realizes the words being taught (like queen or quilt) don't capture the specific 'fluttery' feeling she has. Confused by the omission of the word she is looking for, Poppy finds the courage to talk to her teacher, Ms. Merriwick, about her feelings for Ava. Through this conversation, Poppy learns the word Queer and finds the representation she was missing.
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