
Reach for this book when your child is going through a phase of resistance, demands, or a general lack of courtesy that is causing friction at home or school. It specifically addresses the 'why' behind manners, helping children move past seeing 'please' as an annoying rule and toward seeing it as a tool for positive social connection. Hopper is a relatable, grumpy protagonist who finds that his demands often lead to frustration for everyone involved. By following his journey through a single day of trying out politeness, children can see the immediate impact of their words on others' feelings. It is an ideal choice for preschoolers and early elementary students who are beginning to navigate more complex social expectations and peer relationships. The story is gentle, humorous, and offers a low-pressure way to discuss how our attitudes shape our environment.
The book is entirely secular and focuses on social-emotional skill-building. There are no sensitive topics such as death or trauma. The resolution is hopeful and realistic, showing that behavior change leads to better social outcomes.
A 4-year-old who has recently discovered the power of the word 'no' and is struggling with the transition to 'big kid' social expectations in a preschool or playgroup setting.
This book can be read cold. It is helpful to pause when Hopper is grumpy to ask the child what they notice about his friends' faces. The parent has likely just dealt with a 'demand' rather than a 'request' (e.g., 'Give me juice!') and felt the sting of their child's mounting rudeness or perceived lack of gratitude.
Younger children (3-4) will focus on the colorful animal characters and the simple 'magic' of the word. Older children (5-6) will better grasp the cause-and-effect relationship between Hopper's tone and his friends' willingness to play with him.
Unlike many etiquette books that feel preachy, Fontes uses humor and the 'bunny' persona to make the lesson feel like a social experiment rather than a lecture.
Hopper the bunny is tired of being told to use his manners. He finds the word 'please' tedious and unnecessary. However, after experiencing the negative social consequences of his grumpiness, he decides to conduct a day-long experiment where he uses the magic word. He discovers that 'please' isn't just a rule from grown-ups; it actually changes how his friends and family respond to him, leading to a much more joyful day.
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