Phoebe Dupree Is Coming to Tea!

Abby idolizes her friend Phoebe Dupree, whom she perceives as perfect in every way: smart, athletic, and artistic. Abby spends the day meticulously preparing an elaborate tea party, stressing over every detail from the napkins to her dog Louie's behavior. When a chaotic moment involving Louie leads to a spectacular mess, Abby's carefully constructed plan collapses. However, the 'perfect' Phoebe reveals she actually prefers the chaos, and the two enjoy a much more authentic and joyful playdate. SENSITIVE TOPICS: This is a secular and gentle story. It touches on social anxiety and the fear of judgment, but the resolution is hopeful and grounded in realistic peer interactions. EMOTIONAL ARC: The book builds with rising tension as Abby's anxiety grows alongside her preparations. The climax is a moment of total disaster (the 'mess'), which immediately transitions into a lighthearted, joyful release as the girls bond over the imperfection. IDEAL READER: A 5 or 6-year-old child who frequently says 'I can't do it right' or who becomes paralyzed by the fear of making a mistake in front of a new friend. PARENT TRIGGER: A parent will recognize the need for this book when they see their child meltdown over a drawing that isn't 'right' or becoming visibly stiff and anxious before a playdate. PARENT PREP: The book can be read cold. The rhyming scheme is bouncy and helps keep the tone light even when Abby is stressed. AGE EXPERIENCE: Younger children (3-4) will focus on the slapstick humor of the dog and the tea party mess. Older children (6-7) will deeply resonate with the internal pressure Abby feels to impress a peer she admires. DIFFERENTIATOR: Unlike many 'perfectionism' books that focus on academic or artistic failure, this one focuses on social perfectionism and the exhausting effort of trying to curate an image for others.

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