
A parent should reach for this book when their teenager is grappling with long-term grief or the resurfacing of a painful past event. It is a deeply resonant choice for teens who feel stuck in their own lives while others seem to move on, or for those navigating the awkward, bittersweet transition from childhood playmates to something more complex. Through the eyes of Otis, a boy haunted by the drowning of his younger brother, the story explores how trauma can stunt emotional growth and how friendship can both heal and hurt. It deals with sensitive themes of sibling loss and parental depression with grace and realism. While the weight of the grief is heavy, the book offers a path toward redemption and the understanding that moving forward does not mean forgetting. It is an excellent bridge for parents to talk to their high schoolers about the different ways people process tragedy and the importance of self-forgiveness.
Occasional realistic teenage profanity.
Sweet, realistic teenage romance and kissing.
Depicts parental depression, neglect, and deep mourning.
Brief mentions of adults using alcohol to cope with grief.
The book handles sibling death and parental neglect directly and realistically. The grief is secular and raw, showing the lasting impact of trauma on family dynamics. The resolution is hopeful but remains grounded in reality, emphasizing healing as a process rather than a destination.
A thoughtful 14 to 17 year old who enjoys character-driven stories and may be dealing with the 'ghosts' of their own past, or a teen athlete who understands the use of sports as an emotional outlet.
Parents should be aware of a scene involving a secondary character's self-harm and the detailed descriptions of the accidental drowning. The book is best read when a teen is ready to discuss heavy emotional themes. A parent might notice their teen becoming unusually withdrawn after a friend moves away, or perhaps they see their child obsessively pouring themselves into a hobby or sport to avoid dealing with a personal loss.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the swimming competition, while older teens (17-18) will likely connect more deeply with the nuances of the parents' depression and the complex nature of shared guilt.
Unlike many YA novels that treat grief as a plot point to be solved, Garner treats it as a 'phantom limb,' something that is always felt even when it is gone, using the metaphor of physical training to mirror emotional endurance.
Three years ago, Otis lost his little brother in a tragic accident, and his best friend Meg moved away immediately after. Now sixteen, Otis finds solace in extreme swimming training under the guidance of Dara, an older girl dealing with her own physical and emotional scars. When Meg returns, Otis must navigate his intense feelings for her while confronting the shared trauma that fractured their families.
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