
Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with the realization that they might not be who they thought they were, especially regarding their identity or sexuality. Ophelia Rojas has always been defined by her love of gardening and her string of crushes on boys, but as senior year winds down, she finds herself falling for a girl named Talia. This story explores the vulnerability of outgrowing a persona you have carefully cultivated for years. It is a heartfelt look at how friendship dynamics shift during major life transitions and the courage required to be honest with oneself. Parents will appreciate the respectful, nuanced portrayal of a supportive but confused family and the realistic, messy way Ophelia navigates her coming-out journey. It is a perfect choice for older teens (14 and up) navigating the bittersweet end of high school while searching for their authentic selves.
Teen dating, kissing, and discussions of crushes.
Themes of friendship breakups and the fear of losing social status.
Mentions of teen parties and underage drinking.
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A 15 to 17 year old who feels pigeonholed by their own reputation or past interests. This is for the teen who is afraid that changing their mind about who they are will disappoint their friends or family, and who needs to see that identity is fluid and growth is allowed.
This book can be read cold. It features healthy, though occasionally messy, communication. Parents may want to be prepared to discuss how family expectations around dating or marriage can sometimes make coming out more challenging for teens. A child mentions feeling like they have to play a "character" for their friends or family, or expresses anxiety about how their social circle will change after graduation.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the friendship drama and the excitement of a new crush. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more deeply with the specific grief of leaving high school and the pressure of defining oneself before adulthood.
Unlike many coming-out stories that focus on external persecution, this novel focuses on the internal struggle of shedding a comfortable, well-liked persona. It beautifully balances the protagonist's personal journey with the importance of family and community in her Cuban-American heritage. """
Ophelia Rojas is a high school senior known for her rose garden and her many crushes on boys. As she prepares for the end of high school and the inevitable fracturing of her close-knit group of friends, she realizes she is developing feelings for a girl named Talia. The story follows Ophelia as she grapples with the pressure to maintain her "boy-crazy" persona, navigates changing friendship dynamics, and eventually embraces her queer identity while coming out to her Cuban-heritage family.
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