About This Book
Reach for this book when your older child seems lost in the shuffle of new baby gear, double strollers, and the constant needs of younger siblings. It is specifically designed for the child who is helpful and kind, yet secretly worries that being a big kid means they are disappearing into the background. While the plot follows Katie as she helps her parents care for new twins, the emotional heart of the story is her internal struggle: everyone tells her she is a big girl, but she does not feel any different when she looks in the mirror. This gentle contemporary story is perfect for children ages 3 to 6 who are navigating the transition from being the center of attention to becoming a family helper. It validates the quiet jealousy and physical insecurity that comes with growing up, while providing a concrete, joyful resolution. Parents will appreciate how the book models positive reinforcement and shows that growth is something that happens both inside and out. It is an ideal tool for opening a conversation about what it really feels like to be the big sibling.
