
A parent should reach for this book when their child is struggling with the social fallout and deep-seated anger caused by a parent's legal mistakes or incarceration. Dylan, a twelve-year-old boy in Oregon, finds himself trapped between the memories of the father he loved and the reality of a father who is now in prison for illegal timber cutting. The story navigates the heavy burdens of public shame and the feeling of being judged for a crime he did not commit, while also exploring the difficult path toward personal forgiveness. It is a realistic, grounded choice for middle-schoolers (ages 10 to 14) who need to see their complicated feelings of betrayal and loyalty reflected in a story. Parents will find it a valuable tool for opening honest conversations about the fact that we can love someone while being profoundly disappointed by their choices.
Themes of parental abandonment and social isolation due to incarceration.
The book deals directly with parental incarceration and the resulting social stigma. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the psychological impact on the child. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy: Dylan doesn't 'fix' his father, but he begins to find a way to coexist with the truth.
A 12-year-old boy who feels like he has to carry his family's secrets or mistakes on his shoulders, especially one who enjoys nature but feels alienated from his community.
Parents should be prepared for scenes of school-based bullying and Dylan's intense, valid anger toward his father. The book can be read cold, but discussing the concept of 'separate identities' afterward is helpful. A parent might see their child withdrawing from social activities or lashing out with 'black and white' moral judgments about people in their lives. They might hear their child say, 'I'm not like him/her,' or 'I hate that everyone is looking at me.'
A 10-year-old might focus on the unfairness of the bullying Dylan faces. A 14-year-old will better grasp the nuance of moral ambiguity: the idea that a 'good' person can do a 'bad' thing.
Unlike many books about incarcerated parents that focus on urban settings or systemic injustice, this highlights the specific pressures of a small rural community and the environmental context of timber poaching.
Dylan is a middle-schooler living in a small Oregon logging community. His world is upended when his father is sent to prison for 'poaching' timber. The narrative follows Dylan as he navigates the social isolation at school, the tension in his home life, and his internal struggle to reconcile his father's criminal actions with the man who taught him about the woods.
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