
Reach for this book when your child is starting to ask complex questions about their family history or when you sense they are struggling with the gaps in their own origin story. This moving story follows Alma, a girl raised by a single mother who has kept the truth about Alma's father and her Cuban heritage under lock and key. When the chance to visit Cuba arises, Alma must navigate the messy reality of family secrets and the realization that truth is rarely simple. It is a sophisticated look at identity and trust for the upper elementary and middle school years. Parents will appreciate the nuanced way it handles the tension between a child's right to know and a parent's desire to protect, ultimately celebrating the courage it takes to define oneself on one's own terms.
Themes of parental abandonment and the emotional weight of family secrets.
Family crisis, abandonment, and emotional distress related to parental dishonesty.
A 10 to 12 year old child who feels like an outsider within their own family or who is navigating the complexities of being raised by a single parent while wondering about an absent one. It is perfect for the pre-teen who is beginning to see their parents as flawed, three dimensional people.
This book can be read cold, but parents may want to preview the scenes where Alma confronts her mother. These scenes involve intense emotional exchanges and may prompt questions about why adults lie or keep secrets, even when it hurts others. A parent might reach for this book after their child expresses resentment about missing information regarding their biological family, or after a child says, "I don't even know who I am."
An 8 year old will focus on the travel adventure and the mystery of the father. A 12 year old will resonate more deeply with the internal identity crisis and the nuanced realization that people can be good even when they make mistakes.
Unlike many books about absent parents that focus on the search for a person, this book focuses on the search for the truth. It uniquely validates the child's right to their own history without vilifying the protective parent. """
Alma has grown up in a loving but secretive home with her single mother. Her mother refuses to speak about Alma’s father, leaving Alma with a deep sense of missing history. When an opportunity arises to travel to Cuba with her grandmother, Alma embarks on a journey to find the "one speck of truth" about her paternity. The story follows her physical and emotional journey through Havana as she discovers that the truth is more complicated than a single answer.
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