
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to process a traumatic event, whether they experienced it directly or are feeling the heavy weight of local or national news. This graphic memoir follows Kindra Neely's life after surviving a mass shooting at Umpqua Community College. It goes beyond the event itself to explore the messy, non-linear reality of PTSD, survivor's guilt, and the long road to finding a 'new normal.' It is a vital tool for validating a teen's complex emotions and opening a safe dialogue about mental health, gun violence, and the necessity of seeking professional help. While the subject matter is intense, the book focuses on the healing process, offering a roadmap of hope for those feeling stuck in their grief.
Heavy focus on PTSD, grief, and the struggle to find meaning after tragedy.
Intense depictions of panic attacks and flashback sequences.
Depiction of a school shooting, though the focus is on the psychological impact.
The book deals directly and secularly with gun violence, death, and mental illness (PTSD, depression, and suicidal ideation). While the shooting itself is depicted, the focus is on the psychological aftermath. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: it doesn't promise a 'cure' for trauma but demonstrates how to manage it.
An older teenager (15+) who feels overwhelmed by the world's 'bad news' or a student who has experienced a personal or community-wide loss and feels guilty about their own survival or 'stagnant' progress in healing.
Parents should be aware of a scene depicting a suicide attempt and the visual representation of the shooting. It is best read together or with an open door for immediate discussion. A parent might see their child withdrawing from social activities, obsessing over news cycles, or expressing that they feel 'stuck' or 'broken' compared to their peers.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the 'scary' event and the basic concept of therapy. Older teens will resonate more with the themes of identity, the difficulty of adulting while traumatized, and the nuances of survivor's guilt.
Unlike many books on this topic, it uses the graphic novel format to visualize internal states (like the 'numbness') that are hard to put into words, making it uniquely accessible for teens who are struggling to articulate their own pain.
Kindra Neely provides a deeply personal account of surviving the 2015 shooting at Umpqua Community College. The narrative begins with her early life, moves quickly to the trauma of the shooting, and spends the majority of its length documenting the years that follow. It tracks her move to a new city, her struggles in art school, the physical toll of anxiety, and the way subsequent news cycles of violence re-trigger her trauma until she finally commits to intensive therapy.
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