
A parent should reach for this book when their teenager is hiding stress behind a wall of irritability or struggling to balance adult family responsibilities with their own dreams. It is particularly helpful for kids who feel they have to be 'the strong one' or who use a tough exterior to protect themselves from being hurt. Noelle is a dedicated cellist and high-achieving student whose life is upended when her father loses his job, forcing her into a grueling schedule at her grandparents' restaurant. The story explores the intersection of economic anxiety, academic pressure, and the discovery of queer identity. While Noelle is labeled the 'mean girl' of her group, the book reveals the vulnerability and love driving her choices. It is a realistic and grounded look at urban teenage life, emphasizing that it is okay to let others in when things get hard. Parents will appreciate the nuanced portrayal of family loyalty and the healthy processing of complex emotions.
Sweet, realistic exploration of a same-sex crush and first love.
Deals with the stress of a parent losing a job and financial instability.
Family financial crisis and economic instability.
A 13 to 15 year old who feels the weight of the world on their shoulders, particularly those in marginalized communities who are balancing adult-sized financial or familial responsibilities.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to use the ending as a springboard to discuss how their child is handling stress and to reassure them that they don't have to manage family problems alone. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly irritable, defensive, or 'prickly' when asked about their day, or they might see their teen sacrificing hobbies and social time to help out with household stressors.
A younger teen will relate to the social pressures of the 'mean girl' label and the excitement of a first crush. An older teen or high schooler will more deeply feel the existential weight of Noelle’s financial anxiety and the struggle to maintain academic excellence while working a job.
Unlike many stories that portray 'mean girls' as one-dimensional villains, this book provides a profound psychological look at 'meanness' as a survival strategy for a girl dealing with economic hardship and high expectations. """
Noelle Lee is the high-achieving cellist of the Flyy Girls, a group of four friends at a Harlem high school. When her father loses his job, Noelle’s world shifts from focusing on her music showcase to working grueling hours at her grandparents’ restaurant to support her family. This financial strain, combined with academic pressure and the shifting dynamics of her friendships, leads Noelle to lean into her reputation as the 'mean girl' as a defense mechanism. Amidst the chaos, she navigates an unexpected romantic spark with her friend Tobyn, forcing her to confront her vulnerabilities and the walls she has built.
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